Kicked or banned from chat room?
Have you been kicked or banned from the chat room?
Well maybe you did something wrong, and maybe you didn’t; with so many rules in our terms of service and netiquette rules, it may be easy to break some of the rules, and not even know it. Everyone who uses the site is implying agreement to the terms, and is expected to follow the netiquette rules we have. There is also a chance that you have done nothing wrong, and were kicked by accident.
Did you get kicked from the room and see a message about profanity? Or profanity filter, or use of profanity? Click here.
The chat rooms here get pretty busy, and when moderators click on the names to kick or ban, sometimes the list moves and we end up banning the wrong person. It happens, and if it has happened to you, we apologize, it’s the moving list, and once in a while it’s human error. More than likely the list moved in the process, and the wrong person got bumped. No need to freak out though, when that happens the ban is generally temporary, and you are not added to our forbidden access list. If you were on the forbidden access list, you wouldn’t be reading this post right now.
But what if you did something that was considered wrong and you didn’t know it was wrong? Well first I highly recommend that you read our terms of service, and definitely the netiquette policy. Double check everything there, and know what the rules are. Maybe you did something innocent and didn’t know that it violates our policies. Sometimes that happens, and if it has happened to you, send me comment below, and explain to me that you have read and understand the rules, and promise to play them here. I’ll consider the situation.
Please note – some of the rule infractions will cause permanent banning, and no promises or begging will get you unbanned ever. I’m not going to list all of the things that will make a ban stick forever, but just so you know, if you have posted web addresses to other commercial sites, asked people to webcam with you, asked for money, or played like you were not an adult, then you will be forever banned from the site. There are other things that people have done that have led to a permanent ban as well.
Violating the chat systems rules or etiquette policies will get you kicked from the chat room, possibly permanently banned from using the chat system ever again. Some kicks / bans last for only 5 minutes, some infractions would cause a moderator to kick you from the chat room for one hour, or six hours, maybe even 24 hours. Users who commit major offenses, and can not log into the chat room 36 hours after being banned, have been added to the permanent ban list.
The list of chat room rules that most people get kicked for include:
No one under 18, or pretending to be under the age of 18 years, is allowed to use this site. If you are aware of a user who is not 18 or older you need to alert the moderator(s).
Asking another person to pretend that they are less than 18 years old is not allowed.
Impersonating any user is strictly prohibited and will get you permanently banned from using this chat system.
No flooding the room with the same comment over and over again.
Example:
- User5951: Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
- >Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
- > Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
- User8031: hi every one.
- Moderator: User5951, please do not flood the room.
- User5951: Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
- User5951 has been frozen by Moderator
Phone numbers, social networking pages (Facebook, Myspace, etc), messenger IDs (yahoo, msn, aim, gtalk, skype, meebo, etc), and email addresses are not allowed in the public chat areas.
Example:
- User6832: any one want to talk? Call me 555-5555
- User6832 has been kicked by Moderator
- User9301: hot guys add me on — fake.email@not.real.net
- User9301 has been kicked by Moderator
- User0053: Guys! heres my profile www.myspace-facbook.com/profile/
- User0053 has been kicked by Moderator
- User8056: Heres my im / yahoo / msn id! Hot/f /22/earth imma.scammer
- User8056 has been kicked by Moderator
Do not promote commercial or affiliated products, services, or websites.
Example:
- User3925: hi guys, my best friend just got married to a millionaire he met her at fakedatingonline.com and they’re living happy together and are filthy rich. You don’t have to be rich to join!
- User3925 has been kicked by Moderator
- User7253: I grew my dick 8” now all the girls cant wait to fuck me! You can too guys just use instant-growth.
- User7253 has been kicked by Moderator
Do not post commercial urls, or urls to other chat systems or porn sites.
Example:
- User4867: Free access to all things Porn! www.FreeVirusesFromBadPorn.com
- User4867 has been kicked by Moderator
- User6625: Come here and chat! Fakechat.com 8 girls to every guy!!
- User6625 has been kicked by Moderator
- User9067: check this place out the prices are great! PhonyAdultToys.com
- User9067 has been kicked by Moderator
- User1945: hahaha look at this video youtube.com/funnymovie
- Moderator: hahaha thats hilarious!
Links to YouTube and Espn.com are allowed to be posted sparingly.
Cam invites and requests are not allowed in the lobbies.
Example:
- User6253: Any woman who will let me see her cam?
- User6253 has been kicked by Moderator
- User2534: Hey boys im f 18 on cam come see me now!
- User3925: I want to see your cam User2534!!!!!
- User2534 has been kicked by Moderator
- User3925 has been kicked by Moderator
Hate speech, religious topics, and political conversations are not permitted in the public rooms. If you want to discuss such topics you may create another room.
Examples:
- Government Leaders
- Current wars
- Racism
- Attacking any Faith
- Promoting any religion
important additional information about racial jokes, ethnic statements and hate speech here.
Chat Room Etiquette
Users who repeatedly break and or abuse these rules will be warned. If users continue to break the rules they will be kick and/or banned.
No continual use of complete capitol letters is allowed, unless they are used sparingly. Usage of ALL CAPITOL LETTERS is considered to be YELLING in the online world.
Example:
- User6903: HI EVERY ONE I AM HORNY PLEASE CHAT WITH ME!!!!
- User6903 has been warned by Moderator
- Moderator: User6903, please ease up on the caps.
- User6903: I LOVE MY CAPS!!!! I WILL ALWAYS USE THEM!
- >YAY FOR CAPS!!!!
- User6903 has been kicked by Moderator
Be polite; ask someone in the main chat if they would like to PM with you before start to private message them. Many people, especially women, consider PMing without asking first to be very rude.
The ignore button is a great feature! If someone is pming you with out permission, or saying things in the chat room that you do not want to hear, simply click their name on the list and select ‘block user.’ You will not see any comment by that person for the rest of your login period in the chat site.
This chat service is open-minded on many fantasies; however, not all topics are allowed in the main lobbies. For this reason we have created several other rooms for you to explore your wet and wild dreams. If you want to take part in such discussions simply click the green arrow and door icon 
at the top of the chat area to change to your desired fantasy room.
Not all topics beyond sexual fantasies (politics, religion, etc) are permitted in the lobbies. If you and another person or a group would like to discuss a topic that is not allowed in the lobby, you may take your conversation to private messaging or create a new room.
We have an active community of regular users, also known as regs, here on our site who are usually friendly and helpful. If you’re new here, take some time to get to know the regs and the moderators. Just like in real life, the relationships online take some time to build, so hang out for a while to get to know the other users and vice versa. Enjoy the banter, the interchanges, the craziness, and the humor and you’ll be just fine. Remember, patience and courtesy go a long way to help you learn about how to use the site and help you find a person to have a great sex chat session.
Nickname Guidelines
Many users include their age-sex-location in their screen name. Doing this is not necessary but it is rather helpful and will help decrease the time it takes to find a session.
Examples:
- Jenny f-25-uk
- Sexy Man-39-TN
- Hard4you 19-m-india
- Wet&wild 46/f/Australia
Users who have names that do not comply with the following guidelines will be warned and given a chance to change their name, users who do not change their name will be kicked from the room.
IM IDs (yahoo, skype, gtalk, msn, etc) social networking profiles, and emails are not allowed to be used as names.
Examples:
- Imma.scammer6969(sk ype me)
- Hotbabe1990@example.com
- Horselongdong at FB
Phone numbers are not permitted in names.
Examples:
- Call me 555-555-555
- Hot phone sex!! 1-888-211-6096
Url based nicknames are not allowed.
Examples:
- FreeVirusesForBadPorn.com
- Chatsiteforphoneys.com
- www.website.com
Coming to the rooms with a name including rape, incest, bestiality, or another controversial term or a variation, you may get kicked from the system if you stay in the lobby. Edge-play / taboo terms (terms that are not well accepted in the mainstream world) are not allowed to be in the lobby. However, you can keep terms that are not accepted in the lobby, as long as they are allowed in the system, if you go to another room such as the forced sex room or the family fun room that do not find the terms offensive.
Having any references to “cam” is not allowed.
Examples:
- horny M c2c
- hot babe camming
- here 4 webcaming f 21 uk
This rule is for your protection, there are many scammers out in cyber space promising a cheap cam session in order to get your credit card numbers. DO NOT GIVE YOUR CREDIT CARD NUMBER TO ANYONE YOU MEET IN A CHAT ROOM!
This web site follows the ASACP guidelines for unacceptable terms – using any of the terms listed below, or similar variations in your screen name or lobby conversations will get you permanently banned from using this site.
unacceptable-sex-chat-screen-names
Any name with pedophile, child, kid, or any other terms that suggest that you are underage or are looking for some one underage, or is any variation deemed unacceptable by a Moderator(s).
Examples:
- Pedro phile 24 m
- Horny4kds 32 f
- Lookin4HS FreshmenChicksM 18
- Lilly f 15
The terms boy and girl are highly discouraged. If you want one of these terms in your name, you should add your age to your screen-name so that your age is made clear.
Examples:
Questionable Names:
- Young Hard Boy
- Small Girl Pussy
- Acceptable Names:
- Little wet girl18
- Hard boy19
The Moderators
Our chat rooms have volunteer Moderators who help people and enforce the rules to provide our users with a safe and fun chatting environment. When a Moderator is in their ‘Admin’ role, their name will appear red in the list of names to the right of the chat area. Please remember Mods are people too, who want to enjoy conversations with friends and they often have private messages and whispers that they are keeping track of along with the lobbies and other rooms. If you have a problem or witness a serious infraction you are more than welcome to pm a Moderator for help and tell them about the incident, which they will be happy to help you with.
Sometimes the Moderators will be in the room but will not appear in red. Sometimes a moderator will be in a room with a regular users name, and not in moderator / admin mode. Sometimes a moderator or site admin could be in a room and be completely invisible. Some moderator’s names will appear as yellow or purple. If you need help go into the main lobby and ask for a Moderator, chances are that there will be a Mod logged in or someone who can reach a Moderator for you.
Please be nice to the Moderators, they are very busy people and have a lot of different things to take care of in the rooms. They can easily misunderstand something a person types, so be polite since they can ban you for just for taking up their time. To make sure the room is taken care of Moderators are given the power to warn (an alert shows up on the selected user’s screen), freeze (the user is unable to talk for a period of time), kick (the user is removed from the room for several minutes to a day) and ban a user and their IP address from our chat system forever. If you have a complaint about a Moderator, there is a Moderator complaint page where you can alert the site owner.
A note about user created chat rooms, room operators and mods
If you enter a user created chat room, there may be a username in purple, and that user will have the some of the abilities of a site moderator, including the ability to kick you from their chat room. User created room mods do not necessarily have to follow the rules and guidelines that are established for our official site admins and moderators. If a user created room mod decides to kick you for whatever reason, please do not complain to the site admins, as we do not have any control over user created room moderators. Our official site admins and moderators may choose to enter user created rooms on occasion, and their names may appear normal, in red, yellow, purple or simply be invisible. As outlined on our privacy policy, site admins and moderators may on occasion also enter password protected rooms as well. We highly suggest you read and understand the privacy policy information, and check for updates when you use our site.
Be Defensive!
If there is a user who is talking about something that you do not want to hear or is continually pming you after you have asked them to stop, simply click their name on the list of users (participants panel) and select ‘Block User’ – you will not be able to see any of their comments for the rest of your login time. (It’s the magical “poof! They are gone button, otherwise known as the iggy button)
Some female users change their setting to so that they do not receive private messages due to the large amounts of pms they receive when they log on. 
You can do this by selecting the gear icon at the top of the page and selecting ‘Ignore private messages.’ You can change this setting at any time during your stay.
chat-settings
Be careful of people asking for email, messenger IDs, phone numbers, or any other personal information these people may be getting your information to sell to spammers. Some people who ask you to add them on an instant messenger will only add you to ask you to go to their ‘live cam’ page or to visit their pay-per minute site. There are many scams targeting people trying to get a cyber session do not give any one your credit card number!
Some links can be extremely harmful for your computer if you click on them. This is the reason for not allowing links besides a few sites to be posted in the lobby. Avoid malware and viruses by not clicking on links posted in the lobby or pms unless you know that the site is a safe, secure, and well trusted site, you should also have an up to date antivirus and spyware software installed on your computer. The majority of unauthorized links posted in the lobby will only try to sell you items, ask for your email and credit card information, or scam you in another way. We suggest that you not click on the links in the lobby unless it is to the sites permitted by the rules.
Unless you want to have your email sold to spammers, don’t give your email or instant messenger IDs out to people who you meet in the chat room. They will most likely sell your information and you will soon be flooded with spam. If you want to stay in contact with some of the people you meet in the chat room you may want to think about creating an email address so that your main email address does not receive the possible spam.
If anyone tries to solicit you to engage in another sex chat site, or another commercial web site, or try to get you send money or credit card information, send a private message to one of the moderators if they are in the room and let them know. We don’t want our users to get scammed, spammed, or solicited for commercial anything in our free chat rooms, so help us help you, and help others, by reporting any of that activity.
Arguments / Drama / Flame wars, fanning
We prefer that arguments not be ongoing drama in the lobby. If you disagree with another user, agree to disagree and do not fill up the chat window with flame wars, or fan the flames either. Use the ignore / block button to silence someone who is typing what you don’t want to hear. People who continually argue, or continue to attempt to entice others in arguing can and will be banned from the site.
More Important Info
Harassing other users, a group of users, or the moderators is grounds for being kicked, banned, and or prosecuted. This has been a part of the terms of service since the site was started. I am re-mentioning it here to bring your attention to it, additional info is found on our terms of use page. There are serious issues with not only being kicked from the chat room, but also in us recording and giving up your personally identifying information in cases of harassment.
Harass – (from webster’s dictionary online) (1) : to annoy persistently (2) : to create an unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct
harassment (from http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/harassment ) (either harris-meant or huh-rass-meant) n. the act of systematic and/or continued unwanted and annoying actions of one party or a group, including threats and demands. The purposes may vary, including racial prejudice, personal malice, an attempt to force someone to quit a job or grant sexual favors, apply illegal pressure to collect a bill, or merely gain sadistic pleasure from making someone fearful or anxious. Such activities may be the basis for a lawsuit if due to discrimination based on race or sex, a violation on the statutory limitations on collection agencies, involve revenge by an ex-spouse, or be shown to be a form of blackmail (“I’ll stop bothering you, if you’ll go to bed with me”). The victim may file a petition for a “stay away” (restraining) order, intended to prevent contact by the offensive party. A systematic pattern of harassment by an employee against another worker may subject the employer to a lawsuit for failure to protect the worker. (See: harass, sexual harassment)
GFA Clause – if you are generally fucking annoying, you may be kicked or banned. This includes all kinds of things, and may mean different things to different people, but if for example you just type some gibberish, or try to make fun of the rules, or push the limits, or just post some stupid you tube links, or do anything else that annoys the group or one of the moderators you can and will be kicked under the GFA clause.
By participating in this chat service, users acknowledge that they have knowledge of, and agree to the site’s Terms of Service and Privacy Policies and rules posted above. It is highly recommended that anyone using this chat site, or any other chat system on the internet to have a firm understanding of the sex chat room safety information as well.
Violating Sexchatsexchat.com’s Terms of Service or the chat room’s rules or etiquette policies will result with you being kicked from our chat services temporarily or possibly being permanently banned. Some kicks/bans only last for five minutes, while other may last one hour, six hours, twelve hours, or even twenty-four hours. Users who have committed major offenses will be permanently banned. Users who were banned from the chat system and still cannot join the chat after waiting 36 hours, have been permanently banned.
Got complaints?
I have gotten a few emails from users who complain about a mod kicking them unfairly. I have people explain that they did nothing wrong, yada yada yada. People have told me that it’s unfair, and all kinds of stuff. People have asked me if we let the mods just kick people for no reason. We’ve gotten all kinds of questions about mods.
Here’s the deal with our chat room moderators. Every one of our chat rooms mods has volunteered to help make the chat room a better place. They are taking time out of play time to help the room and everyone in it experience a happy neutral place to enjoy mature conversations. Every one of our mods has read a very detailed set of “mod rules” – and we constantly discuss with each other things that come up, and what to do in edgy situations. Every single one of us is prone to make a mistake once in a while, and some of the mods may interpret the rules in harsher way than others, and act accordingly. Quite frankly, that’s fine with me.
It is a very tough job to defend free speech, even when you are not a fan of some of the things that other people way want to express. Every day we are put in situations when personally we’d like to just kick and ban someone for being an idiot, rude, or taking their conversations to the edge of indecency. We constantly deal with spammers, mean people, user complaints, chat bots, and all kinds of ridiculous things, the last thing we need is someone who comes into the room, breaks a small rule, and then gets all high and mighty about being asked to comply.
I have had users that made small mistakes end up causing big disruptions for the room. If you message me and say, hey I only used all caps twice, I shouldn’t be permanently banned for that, your mod is abusing me just to make his or her friends happy, blah blah blah. You know what probably happened? Most likely a small mistake was made, you were asked to stop, and the came back with an attitude problem. Now as moderators, hey we are used to that to some degree, and we know what it’s like, heck, most of us have been on the other side of the coin. In fact many of the mods were in a big chat room drama blowout as regular users at one time. But it’s the ensuing drama that generally gets people banned.
Sure, maybe you shouldn’t be permanently banned for making a small mistake, but disrupting the entire chat room with your whining and bitching and challenging the mods after the small infraction, well, who needs that? We don’t, our regular users don’t. And you will not win that war, so why even fight it.
I will back up our mods 99.9 percent of the time. I do not expect to get the whole story from you or anyone else, if you message me about a problem, heck I might listen, but don’t think that I am going to believe that you have the whole story. Quite frankly, it’s a waste of my time to deal with complaints in the free chat room. If you were a paying member, then I might be compelled to look further into it. This is a free service in this chat room, if you don’t like the way it is moderated, if you don’t want to play by the simple rules, then don’t. You don’t have to use our site. I would rather have 50 regular users who all play well together, than have 5,000 members who ruin the experience for my favorite 50.
There is a new page where you go to post a comment, complaint, or get info about emailing the site admins about a complaint about one of the chat rooms or forums moderators. – Complaints about Moderators
Also realize that with text chat it may be easy for me to read something and take it a different way than it was intended. The same goes the other way. I might ask something and in my mind I am saying it politely, but you might read the text and thing that I am coming off mean or demanding. Every day all over the world, through chat rooms, text messages, pms, emails, people are reading (hearing) things one way, when the intention (writing) was meant another way. It happens. Even with the “LOLs” and smiley faces we all use, it is really easy to take something the wrong way on all sides of a text conversation.
I have been in the room and seen people say things like “Fuck you Maggie” – and was like, whoa – this guy is being kind of mean. Only to find out that Maggie and John have been friends for years, and when he said fuck you, he meant it in a joking, friendly, poking way. That’s just one example. It happens. So know that you may take something said the wrong way, and we will try to remember that users sometimes mean something one way even when it sounds another.
This rant is getting long, I hope I have made the points to help a majority of the users who would otherwise be trying to find my email addy to vent about unfair treatment.
Please read the netiquette rules, it only takes a couple minutes. Please ask questions in the comments section if you are unclear about anything, and we will work to clarify. Please understand that every moderator is taking time away from their play time to help the community here, and please understand it is a thankless job, with many people who don’t even bother to read the rules. We also deal with all kinds of crap behind the scenes that you will hopefully never have to worry about. Respect the mods, play well with others, and have fun. Be glad you get to chat away and don’t have to deal with all the other crap.
Many times our moderators will warn and or educate a user before they are kicked / banned – but this is not always the case, there is no rule that moderator must warn before kicking a user who is breaking the rules.
Your comments are welcome in the comment box below.
Before you ask in the comments below – wait at least 24 hours. Many times when a user is kicked or banned from the chat room by one of our moderators, it only last for 10 minutes, or an hour, or 24 hours. 90% of the time when someone asks about being banned and for how long in the comments below, by the time I get to see the comment and look it up, the ban has already expired.
For this reason, I strongly urge you to try again in one hour, and wait for 24 hours, then try to access the chat rooms again, before sending the admin any contact email, or adding any comments / questions, etc below.
I got banned from this chat room but I’m not sure if it was permanent or temporary. Is there a chance it could get lifted?
I am going to lift the ban, as mentioned in another recent comment, we will need to revisit our screen name policy. Technically your screen name violated our current terms of service.
I was in the lesbian room, although a guy, but only talking to females who wanted to talk to me. I was not bothering girls not interested in guys. Please dont make this ban forever I love this website.
you should be able to access the chat rooms again now I believe. I am guessing that our moderator put a temporary ban for something or another. We have been getting things a bit tighter in the lesbians chat room recently, as we have had a lot of complaints about men perusing that area. We started a discussion about these issues with the lesbian room with this blog post.
One of the admins was banning people just for being male and i called them out on it and they banned me…can i get the ban lifted? Thanks!
I am guessing it was a temporary ban. See the issue above (with Anthony and replied above) for more info.
Nasher, Angie is back to abusing her mod powers again.
I will look into this – it’s gonna take a couple days. I appreciate your feedback, and hope things simmer down and get back to normal for everyone in the chat rooms soon!
apologies i was in wrong and accept punishment and promise to follow rules
i didnt know you cant ask to cam, ive now read the rules and it wont happen again
I’m sorry if I broke the rules – I don’t think I did because I’m pretty respectful
and have been on here for a while. Maybe I was banned on accident?
Chris
Hey Chris, we have an issue logged in the system that may be a mistake or not. In order to clear this from the system we would need you to make a copy of your ID and take a picture of yourself holding your ID next to your face so we can do an age verification. You can find our contact info here. You will not be able to access the chat rooms in the meantime.
That stinks. I prefer to stay anonymous, so I’m not sure I can risk doing that. I’m sure you can understand that.
It’s all good man, I understand completely. It doesn’t really matter to me either way.
I was roleplaying *edited by site admin* and the guy asked me if he could send me a pix and also asked me my age and that is what I replied in the open room. And now I am banned from this wonderful site. How can I prove to you that I am *edited by site admin* 51?
You would need to scan or take a picture of your ID, and email that in, along with a photo of you, holding the ID next to your face. Then we would consider lifting the ban.
The email contact for the site admins is on this contact page.
i was wondering how long i was banned and what for. i was in the lobby and posted a message then was shorlty afterwards was kicked. i didnt spam or do ask for anything that u guys would ban for. im a little confused as to why, i was wondering if anybody could tell me.
I do not know why. I do not see your ip in our ban system, so you should be able to access and use the chat rooms now. I am guessing a moderator put a temporary, time based ban on your screen name. Again I do not know why, I was not in the chat room at the time, and the ban along with the reason has been automatically removed from the system.
i read all the rules n fail to understand why was i banned………..plz explain
Your reason for being banned is “flooding” – typing too many messages too fast, or repeating the same message too quickly. I am not sure what messages you repeated in the chat room, as I was not there at the time, I can only see “flooding” as the reason one of our moderators put into the system for your ban. This ban is currently set as permanent.
hi i have read the rules, i think i was banned for asking for messenger addresses in the lobby. sorry, it wont happen again!!
hello i can’t sign in,it constantly showing my name or ip address has been banned i d not knw what rule i broke but if i did i am sorry for it…
let me sign in…
Did you go my the screen name “my name is love” – if so I ask you to re-read all of the rules and etiquette terms to make sure you will not be breaking any of our policies.
You can try again to sign into the chat rooms, but we will be flagging and logging your ip addy and keeping an eye to make sure there is no future issues.
This ban may not have been for you in particular, as it was set to block a whole rang of ip addys.
Hi, im not totally sure what I was kicked out for, haven’t been using it long, have I been permanently banned or temporarily? Thanks, Luke.
And reading the rules now, I know in future what’s acceptable and unacceptable.
Great, I am glad you have read the rules and know what is acceptable and not. You are banned from using this web site, and our chat rooms. Please do not return to this web site for any reason until at 2015. After the year 2015, you may then contact the site admins and request a re inclusion. Until then, please do not return to our our web site for any reason.
The ban is set as permanent. You can ask for a ban lift in 2014 if you like. In the meantime, you do not have our permission to use the chat rooms, or this site. Please do not ask again, this matter and discussion are closed.
I appear to be banned but do not know why!
I used to pop on occassionally but after being away for a couple of weeks I’m not able to log in. Any ideas why or anything I can do to become unbanned? If I’ve done something wrong then I’m very sorry and if someone can tell me what it was, I’ll try not to do it again, but I’ve never been kicked from a chat room and have always followed the instructions/advice/suggestion of the mods!
Adam.
I am sorry Adam, but you have been added to our permanent ban list. Whatever you did in the chat room was a major violation of one of the terms of service, or etiquette rules. I do not know which, as I was not in the room at the time.
Is it at all possible to enquire as to why? I believe I have always been courteous and considerate to others, and while I made some errors when first visiting, took on board comments from moderators and acted on them.
I hope you’ll excuse me from commenting that it seems a little draconian for an offence to have me banned, but to have never been kicked or even warned about my conduct.
If I am banned for a particular reason then that is fine, but I would dearly like to know what it was given that I have never been even kicked from the chat before.
I am not sure of the banning process, but is it possible that it was an error and some other user was the intended target, is there anyway of identifying the mod who banned me?
It is always possible that the list moved during the clicking / banning process. As mentioned in the page above here, people do occasionally get banned by accident when we are trying to ban someone else from the chat system. In your case, I will not call out the mod who banned you. If I see that particular mod in the chat room I will make it a point to ask about the situation. It could easily takes days before I see this mod in the room, sometimes it is weeks between me seeing a particular mod in the room. So you are going to have to be patient.
I do see that the screen name was “jhgfvcw” – which to me suggests you were coming into the chat room for nefarious purposes. Perhaps you have been kicked temporary and then decided to come back in under a different name, and ended up kicked permanently? Like I said earlier, I was not in the chat room at the time, and I have no other information really, just a few guesses at this point. I will try to find that particular chat room moderator and see if he/she can enlighten me to any details.
Many thanks for the input.
I’m a little confused by the user name as it’s not anything I’d ever use. The name I tend to o by is (M)ExhibitionistWanker, have occasionally used others but that’s the main one, certainly don’t use things such as the one you suggest but I’m not about to argue with the logs!
Thankyou for your consideration.
hi
i didnt read the rules sorry. i think i was banned for posting a link to a pic to promote my rp scene.
could you forgive me?
Yes, you are forgiven now that you have read and understand the rules. You should be able to access the chat rooms just fine now. I like your screen name. Have fun, enjoy!
Really, I’m so new and naive about this place..whatever I posted I’m not aware of and won’t do it again…as long as I know what I breached insofaras insulting this site….thank you and “sorry” please let me know what happened, so it doesn’t happen again…..Thanks, monitors!
All I know is that one of our moderators kicked you from the chat room and put a 2 hour ban on you / your computer. You will not be able to access the chat rooms during the next two hours.
hey, i tried to get banned on purpose because this site is too addictive and im not getting anything done in my day. Could you guys permanently ban me from this site??? thanks xx
Well we could ban your ip from accessing the chat rooms if you really want us to, but if you are having issues with sex sites getting in the way of getting other things done, then you would probably benefit more from some of the information about cybersex addiction.
If you really want us to ban you from the site, then you will have to ask once more. I would hate to see this be an issue where someone’s lover finds their browser history and goes in and tried to get their partner banned from the chat rooms, we just had a similar issue last week – lol. I just looked into our ban list, and it appears that you will be banned from the site for two years. Maybe we’ll see you in 2013, maybe not.
What!?!?! i’ve kind of changed by mind, 2013, give a girl a break, this chat room is the obly one of its kind on the interent, i know about, please, i got banned the first time for lieing about my age, it was stupid and i regretted it straight away, this time i was TRYING TO GET BANNED, please, im sorry, but could i be unbanned, i have done little wrong. I look forward to your response with baited breath.
No, you can not be unbanned until Jan 2013. You will not have our permission to use this web site until then. This is your official notice, and the matter is closed to further discussion.
i didnt know that using all caps was bad at all its just that i accidentally clicked it and didnt notice
also i would like to let you no that i really would like to get back on soon and i got banned by an accident on my part im very sorry and i have read the etiquette rules please reinstate me soon sir
Are you still locked out of the chat rooms? I think your ban was either set as temporary by our chat room moderator.
i was kicked because i didn’t promptly answer an ASL question and they counted to 5 and i told them at 3 but by then they had already booted me… They saw the comment because it posted in the chat room and i saw it post then got kicked… and i think in all fairness since i did tell my ASL they should let me back on… thank you….
okay, well now that you know that we take the asl seriously, you can get back on. Enjoy the chat rooms!
i walked into a user room and was banned b4 i even said hello, i think it might have been because it was a room marked “moms” and my nic shows i cannot be a mom
thanks for the quick reinstate!
I made a mistake, got frustrated and used all caps. i’m sorry about this. i read the rules now and undertand them. i didnt even know that the site had rules before.
Hey dude, I got kicked and not sure why, I read everything and I’m sure it is just temp. Just wanted you to know I was kicked for no reason.
Yep, I am pretty sure the ban was temporary. Sometimes we do a short ban or kick in order to force a user to read the chat room etiquette rules. Sometimes it happens by mistake. Either way, I think your ip is clear to access the chat rooms fine now.
sorry, I should have read the t&c before chatting…no excuse. .I wont post invites to MSN/twitter/etc again.
Thanks for reading the rules and agreeing to follow them, enjoy the free chat rooms!
Can you see if I was kicked out by accident…I was having a private chat?
Perhaps. I do not see your ip in the ban list, so I am assuming it was a temporary thing and you are able to access the chat rooms now?
banned in the middle of pm…totally confused…I’m the least of anyone’s worries w/tech ’cause I really don’t get most of this…lol
Not sure why you got banned from the chat room – it may have been a click mistake. I do not see your ip in the ban list, so I am pretty sure it was a temporary thing. You should be able to access the chat system now I think.
Totally on pm when banned; very confused as to why…what happens next?
im sorryy!!
please unbann my IP
i know what i did was wrong but it was just a heat of the moment thing
i promise ill never do it again
i just wanna get back on ur awesum chatroom and have fun again :’(
i shall behave u have my word for it
You are gonna need to email us with further information for consideration. Right now I am leaning towards not unbanning. I will need to check with our moderators and see if they can remember the situation and see what they think as well. If you go to the main sex chat site pages you will find a contact us link at the bottom of each page.
I m sorry.. I was kidding with the girl. It’ll not happen again..I hope the ban will be lifted soon
hey i got bannd form my bro beening here how do i get back on
Sorry – you have proven to not be responsible enough to use our web site. You will not be unbanned. I hope you learn to keep your computer, and cell phone, and dvds, and everything else adult locked up so your “bro” can not access those things.
ok cya have a good time so ill never be unband ill never be able to come back on this site
and my bro is *edited by admin* year old
Oh gee.. let me see.. I will have to talk with our moderators and see about a consensus. I am not sure exactly what happened. Perhaps we will think of something here. I may require you to make a copy / scan of your id to prove you are an adult and email me that. Gonna get some espresso and think about this one.
Got banned by Caliope cuz she got owned….Grow up….
I messed up and got banned from the chat. I didnt read the chatroom guidelines and that is my fault. I ask that you give me another chance and unban. I will be sure to follow all chat guidelines next time.
Sorry and Thanks
didnt know about the cam invite, understand now, will abde by the rules, been using for months, wont use cam invites
I’m confused as to why I was banned, the only thing I can think was my name, I had previously red terms as well as after being banned. If my name was the issue then I apologize completely and ernestly and would like to request a lift on my address.
If this is in any way possible I’d be extremely appreciative. If not I would understand but be disappointed. Rules are there for a reason, and although it was harmless I see how it could be offensive in some situations.
hi..soryy but i was with some friends and we were kidding..now that i ve read the rules i will never do it again..plz release my ban..i ll never do it again..
hi. i am not sure what happened. i went into the Lobby room and was saying hello back to people who had pm’d me and then i got two warnings and was banned. i am not sure what i have done. from reading all the rules i have not broken any.
I think someone hacked into my computer and used my IP adress, because I have no idea whats going on…could you please lift the ban?
actually – it wasn’t your ip exactly – it was a broad range of ips to stop a spammer, and your ip was in the range that was banned – that has been fixed – you should be all good to chat now.
Thank you very much =)
hey,can u release my ban?i’m sorry i didn’t know the rule…but i promise i won’t break the rule again…please release my ban…
i´m sorry ! i don´t know that i am doing something wrong ! i just asked for cam chat ! i´m sorry !
i read the rules and agree with them !
please don´t destroy these friendship how i build with some people
i hope the ban will be lifted soon
blalba
hi i didnt realize one of the rules. so i got kicked. is that permanent?
So how does letting a mod know that someone in the room may be under age get you kicked? Thanks Tex.
I’m sorry…I didn’t realize I was doing anything wrong. I have reread the terms of agreement. I will not create a room like this again. Please lift the ban.
im sorry for disobeying the rules i did not read the terms and conditions yet i promise i wont do it again
could u please unbann me?
please remove my ban..i promise to obey all d rules
Hey I got In a argument with a girl and I was rude I am sorry won’t happen again can you please remove tha ban
plz plz unban me..ipromise never to be rude in the chatroomgain. never ever. plz unban me.its a request. thanking u in anticipation
I was annoyed of not getting any gals to make friendship.. So violated some rules n was banned.. i strongly apologize u for violating the rules n ensure u that this will never happen again.. Is the ban forever??? Thank u..
sorry chief didnt know.. my apoligies.
pl. restore
hey im sorry i did not know that you cannot invite others for cam on this site..wont happen again
hey, i am been kicked by one room person, his ffirst name is fascat. i dont know why. i dont even chated with him. please help me
Fascat is neurotic. Your banning was likely due to that Mod’s personal insecurities, which are manifested in the unjustified banning of anything that can fuel such insecurities. This includes, but is not limited to:
Gender
Sexuality
Mental capacity
Ability to logically construct an argument (normally fallacious).
Anything involving a cat penis.
Real life ambitions.
Chances are, you’re permabanned. Enjoy your new life, Shreyas. May the good Lord watch over you on this Christmas Day.
I am truly baffled… I read all the rules yesterday and agree with them..and I do not think I broke any.
I messed up – I did not read the terms and conditions and used an inappropriate screen name. I understand and accept being punished, ignorance is no excuse. Is the ban forever?
Thanks for reading the rules and understanding. The ban was temporary and should be lifted at this point I believe.
i made the same mistake and after reading the rules understand my mistake and was wondering if my ban is permanent or temporary and if so, for how long?
I am sorry, but your computer and ip addy have been added to the chat room system’s permanent ban list. You will not be able to access the rooms again. We ask that you do not visit our web site again. If you would like to write for reconsideration after the year 2014 you are welcome to do so.