There are several levels of verification, and there are multiple ways to be verified. We will be adding additional options for the various levels of verification. Below you will find a form that can be used to verify age, including the option to upload pictures that will be sent to the site admin. When uploading IDs view this form, the information is e-mailed to the site admins, (Nash and Jmes). These files are currently not sent via https, so this is not an encrypted secure upload form. If you want to go the encrypted route somehow, then contact us via email.
In order to use this form to get verified, you will need to send two pictures. One picture must be a valid driver’s license or other state issues photo ID. The second picture must be a picture of you holding the ID next to your face (a so called shine photo) so that we can verify it is you, with your ID.
We destroy the files that are sent to us after we have had a chance to look at the photos sent. We are only looking for age verification with this process, if you would like to put a post it note or something to cover your address, we don’t care about where you live. ID pictures are digitally shredded after we have established that the ID is valid. This process it normally done within 24 hours.
If we are having any difficulty reading the images sent, for any reason, we may hold onto the images longer. If they are blurry in any way, we may request that you make new pictures. Your shine photo is to be a picture of you holding your ID next to your face so that we can verify the ID is really you.
There may be other ways to get verified here soon as well. If you would like to make a credit card payment to prove age, or go through a background checking process, we can consider those options as well. Currently this method is the cheapest method we can provide for you at the moment.
There are other levels of verification that may be considered for areas of the site as well, and so this above form for age verification may be moved eventually. We would also like to provide additional information and suggestions for users here in the near future. Some people would like to have some pictures sent to each other to verify they are who they say they are. Some people will prefer to just cam to cam to see the other person and know that if they say they are a 5’6 blonde with a large chest, then they really are. Some people will want to run a background check on people before meeting in real life. This is highly recommended, and there are many options available to you depending on which state you are in, and which state or country the other people are in.
If you find yourself ready to share more information with someone else you met online, there are some services such as “been verified” that will give you both an opportunity to learn a bit more about the other person to be more sure that they are who they say they are. Please do not get scammed online, and do not get conned offline. Make sure you get a criminal background check and credit check to make sure someone is not trying to con you in some way.
I look to expand the information on this page, and invite others to help add info here, you can share more information in the comments below, or send an e-mail to admins if you’d like to keep your info non-public.