Moderator Complaints
Have a complaint about one of the chat room moderators? Or forums moderators?
Here is a page where you have several options for filing a complaint.
If you want to make a complaint about one of the moderators, you can email the site admins; jmes and nash read the emails sent to adultwebmasteronline atthe yahoo dot com – if you ask that your information be kept private between you want the site admins, when you email, then it will be.
You can also submit a comment in the form below, and you can choose to use your real screen name or just type anonymous. All replies made here on this page will be first sent to moderation by the site admin, “Nash”, unless you have already posted a comment (and had that comment approved) somewhere else on the blog. If you already had another comment “approved” on one of the blog pages, then your comment left below in the reply field will be posted immediately, and all the world will be able to see your comment, and the name you have typed into the name box.
Only the site admin “Nash” will be able to see the email addy you enter into the field below, and your associated ip addy. This info is to keep spammers out of the comments, and provides a way to show gravatars or globally recognized avatars next to your comments.
You could type in a fake email addy – just know that our auto-spam reduction system may auto-delete certain messages (comments that have lots of links or talk about erectile dysfunction drugs, etc).
This page will be updated, have more info to post on other subjects! comment or email away of you have any complaints.
Nash
Why am I banned ? i keep getting for no reason
alex – you are using an ISP that has been used extensively by a couple groups of spammers that we have had many troubles with over the years. For this reason thousands of IP blocks are now banned from your ISP. So I am not sure it is you specifically that is running into this ban issue, as much as it is that we have previously banned thousands of IP addys that your ISP assigns it’s customers. I doubt that much of anything will change this anytime soon. Perhaps you could check with your ISP and ask them if they can assign you a static IP address, and then we could look into something perhaps that might work out.
Its apparent to me you can ban whenever you want when you think its right. If i change my name to ♀ and a few ( ) in front of it, bam im banned, now whats up with that? i waited twice when the bans were lifted, as i was suppose to in the rules, but really, you ruin my night. every single time you ban me, its without reason, i dont get a warning or a reply.. ya alright. (♀) in front of my name always gets me banned. Seriously, go ahead and try it; wont last 5 minutes.
( ) – Fertile Cunt or whatever.. last I remember you were banned, and there was a discussions about it. I do not believe there was any messages that said your ban had been lifted. You were further educated about our terms of service, and some of the issues that could arise if you continue to choose not to follow them. Was there a message that said you would have your ban lifted or that I had given you permission to use our services again?
As it should be, since i havent ever done, according to your rules: Users who have committed major offenses will be permanently banned. As i recall your the one violating the GFA clause by blowing things out of proportion, as was from the very beginning and it seems to be no rules that i can not post my disagreement here.
Im still here as a loyal person to a great chat that i want to be a part of that you dont seem to appreciate like when you were getting DDOS and bugged, throughout the months and seasons. Those are the people who deserve a perma ban, according to your rules; not someone your picking on because you find their persistence in self value and the service you provide to be annoying. Come on now, have some dignity.
http://www.sexchatsexchat.com/blog/moderator-complaints/comment-page-12/#comment-123358
Exactly. I dont find this to be a major offense at all. Look i have respect for what you do, sorting through all the bs, and answering peoples comments here; and probably a whole buncha other stuff. but just dont assume over my person thinking its somone who doesent want to follow the rules and still thinks they deserve to be here. Too ultra sensitive on the perma ban.
As far that original comment goes, your admin sided with somone, a specific somone; who is in fact a dumbass; not more than once, but at least three other occasions this same person.
To the original comment since were going back there; of course i think im unbanned if i can gain access back in; because i only assume it was a light temp ban, which i myself forget about all the time, because a ban i always assume is permanent in my mind; which is why i posted in the first place. I simply remind myself and know of the temp bans.
symbol, fertile cunt, let’s make this perfectly clear. You are not permitted to access any of our chat rooms or services associated with this site, or any of our other sites. This ban is permanent. This will not change. It does not matter if you think something is a major offense or not. If you find you have a way to access our chats or other systems, that does not matter – you are being told now, and have been told in the past, you are NOT ALLOWED TO USE OUR SERVICES. Do not return to our site ever.
Nash, I accidentally banned “Drew69foru” while setting the ban and filling the REASON box for a “girlssexy96″. >.< I hate myself when the list jumps or the mouse slips.
Please unban him/her.
Got it fixed Max, Drew69 unbanned, thanks for the info.
Why do you threaten people over the internet?
James – Who? When? I have no clue what you are commenting about.
i was banned for no reason, i was doing nothing at all. i believe it was an accident
roleplay man – I see you did not bother to read all the rules on the kicked / banned / sex chat rules page you were sent to when you were kicked out of the chat room. Now that you have violated another one of those posted there, you need not bother to read them all, simply do not return to our chat rooms. Peace.
I was banned for opening several tabs at the same time, but it was fun and stupid, not malicious in any way. I was wondering if the ban is permanent and if there is a way I can use this site again.
Brazilian Bitch – a double login into the same room is a violation of our terms of service. A triple login into the system is strictly forbidden in the terms of service. If it was me in the room moderating at the time, you would of likely gotten a permanent broad range ban, however you found yourself in the company of one of the nicer moderators who likes to educate people about the rules and terms of service, and give them a chance to return with more knowledge of our expected etiquette and better behavior. This particular moderator set your ban for 24 hours I believe. Which means you will once again be able to access the chat rooms in about 45 minutes or so.
I hope you have taken the time to thoroughly read and understand our etiquette rules, and the terms of service. Another rule infraction and your ban will likely be permanent next time.
I am bi and never have enough
I was accused of rping an under aged character The character Uchiha King, refers to the adult version of him as Most kings are the eldest of the family or clan. If you can lift my ban I woud greately appreciate it. Thank you for your time and considerationg.
Sasuke Uchiha King – I would look into this further, however I have found that you were using a URL to access our chat system that is strictly forbidden in our terms of service. Therefor your ban is permanent, please do not return to our web site, or use any of of our chat options. You are hereby permanently banned from our realms.
Hi Nash,
Thank you ever so much for lifting my ban, i appreciate this very much as its important to me. I am aware that another Irish girl from Dublin was banned here, i do not know who she is but it has nothing to do with me.
Nash, i will not bore you with any more details but i can assure you that i am a “gentle” person who respects all others irrespective of their views and i do not infringe the rules here.
Thank you once again.
Sincerely,
elizabeth,f,25
Mikey,
Thank you so much for your support Mikey, always a true gentleman!
Elizabeth,f,25
hey, Nash,
I had a list jump/ban thing tonight. Can you unbann blueeyes(f)? I got her instead of cazzie3.
Thanks,
BigTex
Got it fixed Tex.
Hi im not sure why ive been banned, I always follow the rules. However where I live I use a server that provides internet to about 70-80 different residents is it possible i was banned because of something one of them did?
Bigbro -yes that’s quite possible that someone else that uses your ISP or network could of gotten the whole network banned, and therefor you are unable to access to the free sex chat rooms here.
Hi Nash,
My apologies for the many emails but this subject has been going around in my mind ever since i was “banned”.
As i have already told you i am on this site most days of the week for the past six years or so (ever since the time of Bambi the Moderator).
I originally logged on here as “aisling/f/20″ and was a frequent visitor to the Lesbian Action Room. I took time out from this site two years ago (six months to be exact) due to the intensity of my final examinations and returned after my exams were completed some two years ago as elizabeth,f,23, elizabeth,f,24 & 25 returning to the BDSM room but often use the Lesbian Action Room. I do not go to the lobby other that when i log on here i end up in the lobby for a few seconds while transferred to my “own” rooms.
The only ID i use here is elizabeth,f,25 or (my own name) aisling/f/24.
My question therefore to you: how come in 6 years have i never been warned, kicked, banned or come to the attention of the Moderators or Administration in any way??.
I am NOT appealing to you Nash (with respect) as i feel in my heart i have nothing to appeal or apologise for.
I live in rural Ireland with my parents/sister, way out in the “sticks” miles from the nearest village, this site has been my sanity as its very lonely here, especially in wintertime.
I appear to be the victim of someone who is jealous or with a chip on their shoulder. The most used word in my vocabulary is “thank you” or “no, thank you” perhaps i was wrong to be so sincere with people here. To be honest i am more stunned than angry over this.
This saga has gone on far too long for both of us and I ask you now to please make a decision, one way or the other, in order that we can get on with our lives.
Sincerely,
elizabeth,f,25.
Elizabeth, you should be all clear to access now I think.
You were not banned specifically, but someone else who uses the same ISP that you do was given a broad range ban a while back. When we do a broad range ban, it prevent more then 250 ip address assignments from that ISP from accessing the chat rooms.
Some ISPs, especially in rural areas, give out dynamic assignments, which could translate to thousands of their users at one time or another getting assigned an IP addy that is within the block of addresses that we have previously banned. You can read more about why we do these broad range bans here if you are interested.
Sorry about the delays in getting this resolved. I was quite curious about another issue that occurred with someone in your part of the world who also – well never mind. Anyhow, I will be keeping an eye on some things. If you have another issue such as this please let me know.
i was banned and i do not know why.
duffaekr – an issue has been flagged that will require you to get age verified here, or remain permanently banned from our sites.
Nash,
P.S. Morning time in Ireland i mean…i am 5 hours ahead of you.
Hi Nash,
I sent you an email yesterday, April 30th, regarding a ban on my username and IP address – i am horrified as i have always conducted myself with dignity and respect for other people here..
My last log-on the site was Monday, April 29th, morning time.
I have been told (via email) that “janie” used my log-on username in error on Monay evening, not sure if that has anything to do with my ban as i cannot for the life of me figure out why i should receive such a ban. I have never even been chastised or kicked by any Moderator here and i am six years on this site. As i have stated in my email to you that both Mikey and Fine Wine will confirm this.
I would ask you please for confirmation as to why i have received such treatment.
sincerely,
elizabeth,f,25
elizabeth, this ban was not placed on another user that was using your name. Were you logged in a while back with the screen name “ann” or something similar to that?
Hi Nash,
Thank you for your reply.
No, the only other name i have used here is “aisling” i am very consistant and never used any other name on this site other than elizabeth,f,24 but changed that to elizabeth,f,25 at my birthday time, i.e. January.
elizabeth,f,25
Hello Nash & Elizabeth,
Nash in my almost 3 years on coming to the site I can recall at no time I have never seen Elizabeth break a rule, she is one of the very few that sticks to the site rules when no mod is on, when I was modding at no time can I remember having to issue any warnings to Elizabeth let alone a kick or ban.
Mikey.
Sorry for double post here, but I didn’t see my comment up after several reloads of the screen.
I was banned from the Original Sex Chat Room on April 26 at about 3:30pm EST. This was following a post made by SexyGreenEyes, where she made the comment that she frightened someone away from a video chat by saying she was 16 when she was really 18. I said afterwards that that person was adhering to the adage of an old joke I heard and repeated on the chat space “16 will get you 20,” as in engaging in underaged acts will get you prison time. At about that time I was banned.
I read the Etiquette rule and do not clearly understand what it was I was banned for. I would like an explanation and information on how long this ban is for. I’ve never done or said anything wrong in the Sex Chat Space nor have I ever been given warnings of doing anything wrong. I am not happy with the results of today and do apologize for saying the wrong thing if that is in fact what I did. I only made a reply because the person speaking was claiming 18 and that is all I had to go by, and from what I understood, that was not a problem. Any and all help would be appreciated.
Fun Guy 4 Phone – I am not exactly sure about the entire situation, however I could see from a moderators view, seeing some of those words coming across the screen may make someone think that the conversation was about someone not yet 18 years old, and seeing that as being reason for a ban. Often times as a moderator, we are watching a couple of rooms at the same time, and engaging in multiple private chat conversations at the same time as trying to keep an eye on the main rooms. Seeing numbers such as those come across the screen would certainly put up the kick / ban radar quickly. If only seeing part of the conversation, it would be easy to misread what the intent or actual meaning was.
I am releasing your ban at this time, as a misunderstanding.
Thank you Nash. I see where you and the mods are coming from through this explanation and will keep my comments more on the topic at had, not on anything that could be looked at for banning purposes.
I am 18! why the hell was I kicked off. I am of age
sexy green eyes – did you read all of the rules on the chat room rules page you were sent to when you were kicked?
Did you engage in a conversation in which you were pretending to be another age? (Some call this age play)
sorry for cam i miss sex chat site ple open me
i m cery sorry for cam ple allow me ple i like sex chat site ple open my id
i m cery sorry for cam ple allow me ple
paresh – your ban is part of an old broad range ban, and most people that visit our site from your country will not have access to the chat rooms here. You will have more luck using the chat rooms we setup at Erotic Asia Sexy Chat.
The broad range ban here on sex chat sexchat can not be released, as there are too many other rules breakers that access from the same ISP as you, and the ISP networks in your country (and several others as well) have not been cooperative with us in resolving past abuses by others who use those networks. Therefore most people surfing our site from your region will not be able to access the chat systems here.
Hi,
I was banned from the fam fun chat room and my ip address blocked and I was warned and then blocked within a couple of seconds within this warning and I wasn’t doing anything wrong and couldn’t ask because I was blocked so quickly. Please help me
Thank you so much
Rachel, one of the moderators has flagged you as needing to get age verified here. If you follow the steps on the get verified page exactly, we can release your ban. If you do not want to, I understand, but if you do not, then your ban remains permanent, and you will not be allowed to access any of our chat rooms, or our web sites in the future.
Dear Nash i am trying to log in to the chat but it always says that my ip address was banned for 5 days now.
I have read the site rules and wont ask Skype or anything like that.
thanks.
okay sex teacher, you are all clear now.
i can’t access the chat what is going on ?
lady em – seems like we lost some connectivity for a bit. The internet congestion has been crazy this year. The chat is back up and connecting now though, from here at least. We also have info about chat room connection problems and solutions on this page as well.
This is a shout-out and HUGE thank you to Nash and all the mods for running this site. Without you, I would have never reconnected with the love of my life and the Man that has since asked me to marry Him. We could not be happier, and we both cannot thank you enough.
Congrats Rose.
This is fucking bullshit. I get Chat banned over and over again by different moderators that DON’T even TELL ME what they’re banning me for. Its a total disgrace. I DID join mutliple times in the past, but thats in order to know why since the rule is for r tards. And yes im totally Pissed.
Fine Wine , 20m uk has been getting me chat banned over and over every-time for months, its ridiculous and noone here stops it. Hes obviously racist or a huge troll against furries or anything fantasy like. I tried just today to confront him about it, i wanted to know why he will go afk for a long while and not say anything and then BAM im insta banned no questions asked.
Feritle Cunt – banned over and over again? If you are kicked / banned once, then you may not try to access again unless specifically told here that you are unbanned and allowed to return. This is in the terms of service.
The moderators do not need to tell you why you are kicked or banned. Most people who are kicked or banned read the rules posted on the kicked or banned from the sex chat rooms page they are sent to, and learn the reasons they were kicked all on their own. The information on that page spells it out pretty clearly.
As I mentioned above, once you are kicked or banned from the chat rooms, then the message your are being sent is: your access to our chat systems are revoked, and if you don’t want to be, you need to read and understand all of the information on the rules page, and ask the admin about it. You should not be returning unless specifically told by me that things have been cleared up, and you will again be allowed to access our systems. This permission has not been given in your case, so by returning you are breaking more of our rules.
You have been flagged as being gfa, and needing to be age verified.
If you want to get age verified here – you can do so – but I will not guarantee that you will be allowed to gain access to our chat rooms again, even if you do get age verified, as I will need to research the issues and acquire more information about the many issues we have had with you. I can say for sure, if you do not get age verified using the methods we have available, then you will certainly never be unbanned, and you are specifically being told not to access our web sites, any of our chat rooms, or other systems, ever again in the future.
Edit – never mind, after receiving more information about your antics, as posted in this comment below – your ban is permanent, and will not be changed. Please do not return to our chat rooms or web sites.
None of our moderators are racist, or trolls, or judge people based upon their fantasy roleplay choices, so long as they fall within the rules and guidelines that we have established.
20muk had nothing to do with your ban. You were logged into our site with the numbers 13, 14, 16. Trying to catch up with you was almost impossible as I tried to send you messages. I banned you once yesterday and once today. Our rules clearly state you may not be logged in three times, does not matter if you think it’s a “tard” rule, it is one of our rules and people who respect our rules are not banned.
However, I did hear from the user that he continued to kick you from his private room do to your annoying behavior and your insistence on returning to his room after he asked you to leave. Room operators can kick you from their rooms for any reason. Once you are kicked from their room, you should not be continuing to re-enter again and again, this is considered harassment.
There is information about that on the kicked /banned and rules pages – info about how we do not have any control over that, and more.
If “Fertile Cunt” had read the information “she” was suppose to, “she” would know that, amongst several other things.
This ban is permanent, do not bother sending in any get verified info. You are being told not to return to our chat rooms, or our sites at all. As laid out in our terms of service, we will move forward with violations of the CFAA if you decide to return.
Peace.
Wow. Ive been coming here for years; and ive had alot of fun, and always been sincere to others; your response is pretty appalling, and labeling me as a “moron” who hasn’t read the rules; doesn’t understand them, and as a troublemaker. I did break the rules by coming back into that person’s room; and to seek an answer from the current admin in the room.
Ill always put forth my opinion, like in this case of you overeating to my claims so you can label me as someone “abusive trespasser” to take the fall for your own problems internally.
The first time i saw you Fine whine, i waited in the room; i didn’t say anything and just sat there. Waiting for something to happen. What you say is totally true and all correct.
Your reaction; my “age verification” (what for? why would this ever be instated? My actions have not warranted it) and permanent ban with threats of CFAA pretty much speak for themselves. Its also a weak, pathetic low blow threatening with an act thats clearly designed to find guilty all users of the internet.
If you did try to contact me thats fine, Fine Whine i understand; would still like to have some sort of indication, but i know its not required- ill still complain about it.
This is what i get for being a dedicated fan to your website.
This site is part of my lifestyle.
Just wanted to add;
Peace, Love
No need to fight when we can just get along.
Laters.
Fertile Cunt – I am glad you had the opportunity to enjoy our free sex chat rooms for years. Sorry to hear that you find our responses appalling, upon seeing the things that you chose to do, I myself was appalled that you chose to do them. No one was labeling you as a moron in any way.
The answer question about the age verification probably has to do with you logging in with the numbers that are against our screen name guideline rules, in your screen name. It may have to do with other things as well, I am not 100% sure at this time, as I have not had the time to go into too many details. Given that you logged in with those numbers, that is enough right there to force a ban and request age verification, along with verification of reading and completely understanding all of our rules.
Although some people can debate that the CFAA makes almost every user on the internet in violation at one time or another, it was not designed for that reason as you assert. It was designed to create a penalty for those who access digital assets they should not be. In this case it is very clear that you have been banned, and told not to return to our communication systems, should you attempt to circumvent that ban in any way, then you are attempting to access digital assets that you have told not to.
As an individual in a business society, taking steps to stand up for oneself shouldn’t be that surprising; regardless of the media. That is where we differ in our opinions of what I’ve done.
That age verification explanation makes total sense. Although artificial intelligence isn’t as good as artificial …frosting.
Stayed up all night thinking about cfaa btw. Was worried yaknow; had my concerns.
The cfaa has got nothing on my back rubs however, though it might be banned in south america. Should fix the problem(and bend you to my will). :3 /rub /rub
Thanks for taking your time tho to answer, i do appreciate it.
nash i will never do anything improper ever again if you lift my ban. i am very sensitive. sorry nana
Nana – I am sorry to tell you that I do not think I could put together a list of things you should not do here. It’s not like there was one or two isolated incidents with you, there were so many times that you came out with things that were so close to being on the edge of being a bannable offense.. you would have to completely change your entire style of chatting.. Almost like someone who was a heavy alcoholic for many years, then become sober or something. I mean it would have to be that kind of change, and though I believe you are being sincere with your offer to not doing anything improper, I think it would be simply a matter of a short time before you fell into previous conversation patterns that really do not have a place in the lobby.
I am sorry you are sensitive, and your ban is nothing personal, it’s not that I don’t like you, and I know many others like you, but I have banned several likeable people not just from our sex chat rooms, but from clubs and other events offline as well. There are just certain places where things are tolerated, and some places that are not a perfect fit for some people.
I do not think now it is a good time to consider bringing you back into the mix, sorry.
If you finished a 30 day program somewhere or something, and then made some agreemtents about never mentioned certain people, or things, or, well.. that’s a lot of other thoughts.
Hello, me again!!
Was banned the other day (Friday 5th April i think) for i don’t know what. I wasn’t rude in text or offensive, swearing or fighting.
I have used this nickname before without being kicked or banned & so thought i could use it. I apologise if the nickname i used is in anyway wrong/offensive/against the rules, i do not realise if this was the case.
Please, if possible, lift my ban & i will create another name to use.
Thank you, Jason.
Wanking, as was posted in the kicked or ban blog, you were banned from our chat rooms before the changes. You were given many chances, warnings, short kicks , and a 24 hour kick , prior to being banned. It was not so much your name, but the fact that you would not limit your name to the family room. Myself and several other moderators spoke to you about on several occasions. http://www.sexchatsexchat.com/blog/kicked-or-banned-from-chat-room/comment-page-17/#comment-122751
Please refer back to these two other pages for comments on your ban.
Dear Fine Wine,
Yes you have warned me before when i have arrived in Lobby when logging into the site. I have moved on from that room upon noticing these warnings, some times though i have been multitasking (not like that!!) & haven’t always seen these warnings instantly.
Also, on several occasions my being kicked has come without warning, not even being given enough time to move rooms. These occasions i feel i have been unfairly treated.
I feel that when i have been in rooms that contain similar ‘family’ orientated names that i have been singled out & kicked. Maybe that’s just my paranoia!
I apologise for not often having my eye on the ball & wish to behave in the future.
Please could someone reply to my last comment, thank you.
I would really like to be part of this wonderful community again.
Wanking,
All the responses are in the posts that were linked here for your request. Your were given many chances to change your name or to follow our rules about taboo names in certain rooms.
All users with “similar” names are also requested to change rooms or open up their own private rooms.
Please remember, warnings are not always needed, especially after several conversations with our mods, verbal warnings, system warnings and kicks when you failed to follow our rules.
You were not kicked or banned for entering our site and immediately changing rooms. You were banned for continuing to break the rules, time after time, so you had been given several chances.
i got blocked i didnth know you cant use certain nicknames i did not read the ettique log please unblock me thanks
no mia – your ban is permanent. Please do not return to our web sites or chat rooms systems, ever.
Peace.
Hi, just seeing if this post shows up. I posted one about being banned but I don’t see it on the page.
Someone messaged me out of the blue, and I guess it must have been a mod. He asked me a nonsense question, which I responded to with a nonsense answer. I told him to get lost, because the conversation was going like a usual unwanted PM conversation goes. At the end he said, “Ok, chica” or something like that. Next thing I know, I’m reading the orange on black text. This was in the original chat. I think I must have been mistaken for some female — maybe I was kicked for impersonation. I don’t know. Anyways, I wasn’t warned or anything. If warned, I stop. Please let me back in. Thanks.
Hi Nash,
It’s NanaSquares. I was banned for cursing in a fight with another user. I will be super sweet and respectful of ALL RULES. Please let me come back. I miss my friends. No more drama. Thanks. – Nana
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i m really sorry
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ple open my id
i m very very sorry
ple open my id i m sorry for cam
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ple
Every time I walk in the room, I get banned. It’s like I’m just meat thrown to a vulture. I WANT MY FREEDOMS BACK THE 2ND AMENDMENT SHALL NOT APPLY TO SEXCHAT!
Big shout out to Tex, Casey, Trouble, Tasty, and a few other bitches I can’t remember because I am currently suffering from alcohol poisoning.
Lol seriously how do I still have a liver?
i was chatting in the chat room now its saying my id is not valid and wont let me into the room why is that happening
buzzie jones – which chat?
buzzie – if you are talking about the “new chat” – then type slow, and make sure you capitalize your screen name if it was capitalized when you signed up – that makes a difference.