Moderator Complaints


Have a complaint about one of the chat room moderators? Or forums moderators?

Here is a page where you have several options for filing a complaint.

If you want to make a complaint about one of the moderators, you can email the site admins; jmes and nash read the emails sent to adultwebmasteronline atthe yahoo dot com – if you ask that your information be kept private between you want the site admins, when you email, then it will be.

You can also submit a comment in the form below, and you can choose to use your real screen name or just type anonymous. All replies made here on this page will be first sent to moderation by the site admin, “Nash”, unless you have already posted a comment (and had that comment approved) somewhere else on the blog. If you already had another comment “approved” on one of the blog pages, then your comment left below in the reply field will be posted immediately, and all the world will be able to see your comment, and the name you have typed into the name box.

Only the site admin “Nash” will be able to see the email addy  you enter into the field below, and your associated ip addy. This info is to keep spammers out of the comments, and provides a way to show gravatars or globally recognized avatars next to your comments.

You could type in a fake email addy – just know that our auto-spam reduction system may auto-delete certain messages (comments that have lots of links or talk about erectile dysfunction drugs, etc).

This page will be updated, have more info to post on other subjects! comment or email away of you have any complaints.


  2,389 Responses to “Moderator Complaints”

  1. Hey, I’ve noticed a couple of the admins being a little bit rougher than usual and a little less forgiving when it comes to dropping the banhammer. I’m not one of the people getting in trouble here, I’ve just noticed it in the past couple days, Specifically Cureae and Bitch in Boots

    • Thank you taking my suggestion and bringing your concern to the complaint page

      Just to set things straight

      1. no one was banned
      2. warnings were given and the first person kicked decided to threaten another and was so focused on YELLING they couldn’t see the warning.
      3. It was clear several didn’t know the rules. Both the first and second people kicked were given 30 minutes to cool off and read the rules even after I explained caps were against our rules.
      4. It was also clear that people were not taking it as a joke.

      At last, Nash, will be happy to forward you the chat logs from the so called “fun”.

      Being less forgiving would be banning someone and not giving them the chance to come back after reading the rules and follow them, employ their block button as mentioned so they don’t go off because others can be annoying to them.

      • Horrorshow, I have no idea who you are, nor have I had any interaction with you. IF you are one of the people who brought a situation to my attention in the main lobby, regarding a kick/ban by BitchInBoots, then I too am happy to see you have taken mine and biker’s suggestion to voice your concerns here.

        No one was banned or kicked, nor do we do so for asking simple questions. You ARE, however, encouraged – as you were several times in the Lobby – to bring your issues to the moderators in PM, where we will be more than happy to answer whatever questions you have…within reason.

        When you and another user chose to pointedly continue the discussion in the main room, you were again encouraged to speak with either biker or myself privately, or we would be forced to remove you for causing unnecessary drama in the main room.

        If that was NOT you, or the issue to which you’re referring, please accept my apologies, as I have no other earthly idea what you could mean.

    • Horrorshow – I always appreciate people bringing their thoughts to these pages (the mod complaints page here, the site suggestions page, the feedback page). Whether it is a major issue, a minor thing, a one time or frequent observation. I always take everyone’s thoughts into consideration. Your comment in general is something we can reflect upon. If you find this to be something that continues to gets worse, please save some chat log snippets and send them to my email.

  2. Again, problem with entering the chat rooms. It says “Connect failed”. What did I do?

  3. I don’t understand why I am banned? Can someone please explain this to me? I’ve already written about the problem, and yet, no response.


    • your worst fucking nightmare. Fuck this site – sure. Thoughts on Curare, I guess some may feel the same. Everyone in the lobby? I would not say everyone. Half the time disconnects? I find that strange. We do not allow kids to roam the site. Fuck sex chat? Yes.

  5. Admin Nash,
    I am writing to follow up on a comment I sent re: a ban that I received for an inappropriate user name that I used. (I think that was the reason). I have since changed my user name and was wondering was my ban permanent? I want to sincerely apologize for any rule infraction that I may have committed. I sent a comment a couple days ago in the “band notice” section and asked to reply to my email address. I was only in the room for about 30 seconds before I was kicked/banned. I want to reassure you this will NOT happen again! This is a first time for me and I greatly regret my decision. Will you please take this in consideration in your decision if indeed this was a permanent ban.

    Please advise,

  6. Spammer Alert, in and out and I was multitasking

    sabsboom: Hey! Add me to — and lets be dirty talking friends. sabs_boom@—.com 26/f/toronto italian, petite loves to fuck.
    sabsboom: —

    sabsboom: Hey! Add me to — and lets be dirty talking friends. sabs_boom@ h o t m a i l .com 26/f/toronto italian, petite loves to fuck.
    sabsboom left the room. (Logged out)

  7. grrr,
    Nash , please unban NudeSon, was banning Nudist fam 36 for underage sex talk about her kids

  8. Was kicked and have no idea why… kicked as soon as I logged on. Not sure what I did

    • rz1 – I do not see anything about you in the ban list. Did you read the kicked / banned / rules page? Did you see a message saying your banned?

  9. I previously posted a comment that I am slightly regretting…it would appear this jackass has a way of just bouncing back in once kicked…so as frustrated as I am because I was actually having a really fun night. There’s nothing anybody could do about it, and as per usual, the mods are on it.

    • GoddessDivine – I am going to hold your other comment in moderation for a bit while I decide what should be published and what should be held in system info / non public. This will be discussed amongst the mods.

      • Nash, I appreciate you looking in to it…but he literally logged in and out at least 25 different times. Biker and Curare had to be so frustrated with it. It was just one of those incidents and I let my temper get the better of me. The mods are greatly appreciate by this reg :) I know their job is not ever easy.

        • Indeed, as I look deeper into this issue, this one is particularly a royal pain in the ass. There was a lot of work behind the scenes on this, and it is continueing as we speak. This is going to take a lot of extra work to deal with. and ” I know their job is not ever easy.” – that is a serious understatement, I feel bad for the mods on most days, but a day like that is much worse.

        • Thanks for the kind words, GD. This is a great example of why we so strongly encourage the use of your “friendly” block button. Once engaged, the “troll buffet” immediately shuts down – and they starve to death – leaving everybody’s good time relatively intact.

        • Thank you Goddess..we appreciate your support

  10. i want to know y i got banned for i didnt do anything wrong

    • imurslut – this is an old ban from a long time ago. It may not be that it was placed against you, or it may be. What screen name have you used in the chat previously?

  11. Can we please have mods with a sense of humour? With the ability to recognize humour? Or at least, when presented with something they don’t understand, ask for clarification rather than getting all butt hurt?

    Some sites have bots as mods, it actually works pretty well. If you’re going to have human mods program them to have a sense of humour and an imagination

    • Miss A – I see your suggestion here.
      I kind of answered this a bit with the comment reply on the kicked / banned page here.

      I guess I can add that even if one was to have a sense of humor, they are likely not going to have a complete knowledge of all pop culture for all the decades, from all the regions of the world. I am sure that we could choose only mods with a sense of humor, however one that was 21 years old from Australia is going to have a different pop culture knowledge than a mod who is 40 years old in the uk. A 30 year old mod in the USA may know that some of the Benny Hill shows are supposed to be funny, but not know why. So we must all remember that our chat rooms are not only serving a large range of age groups, but also regions of the world. So communication, especially with some forms of humor, or other pop culture references can be challenging.

      Reminds me of this one time in a strip club.. oh, that’s a story for a different page I guess.

    • Miss_A:

      You are the worst kind of sexchat “reg” around. You are a GFA and your “jokes” break site rules so the mods are MORE than justified to tell you to knock it off. It has nothing to do with their sense of humor. From what I’ve seen. Nobody is laughing at your “jokes”. I have had my fair shit with mods but this I am backing them up on. I’ve seen your behavior and frankly, its inappropriate for the site (maybe you should re-direct yourself to the rules page) I wish I saved the chat logs of your “jokes” to show Nash exactly what kind of ‘humor’ you have.

  12. Me and like 4 other people were banned a few minutes apart without warning by mod Jesse and I have no idea why.

    • Lily Charbelcher – did you read the info on the kicked / banned page? Or the chat room rules / etiquette? Most people find the answer to this question on those pages.
      I do not know the details, but there is a note about this series of kicks that says something like “underage comments not to talk about them in the room”. I was not there, so I do now know all the details.

      • No someone commented in the main room about fucking an underage family member. Uncle Mike said you should only say stuff like that in private and I said you should just not say it at all. I obviously wasn’t condoning or contributing to the original comment once you see the transcript.

        • lily – I will look into this issue.. it will take some time.

          • Uh it didnt show my comment, not sure why or if there is a time delay. Was just wondering if there are any updates.

          • It is going to take some time lily.. I might be able to get some info on this tonight, we’ll see. I answered your first comment as I was going to bed.. and at this moment, I just woke up. Now I have to hunt down some other people, an depending on their schedule it could take an hour or it could take another day before I get additional info back on this. Sorry.

          • lily – luck you, our schedules matched up, and I was able to get extra info quickly today. Your ban has been cleared now.

  13. I got no sign in screen just a plain blue one whats up

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