Sex Chat Room Etiquette and Rules
Help us make the chat rooms a better place by adding your suggestions for rules and etiquette in the comment section below!
The first few chat room rules
No one under 18
No flooding the room with the same comment over and over
Some conversation styles are not appropriate for the lobby or public rooms. If you and someone else decide that you both want to engage in conversation that some may find offensive, then take your conversation to private messages or another chat room within the system. You can find other rooms by clicking on the rooms tab, and you can also create you own room, and you can password protect it if you want to limit the conversation to certain people that you pm the password to.
Do not post phone numbers, email addresses, or IM (Instant message, like yahoo, msn, skype, etc) in the chat rooms
Do not post commercial urls, or urls to other chat services, or porn sites.
No cam invites
Do not use our chat rooms to promote any commercial or affiliated service, or web site.
No hate speech, no religious talk, and no politics in the lobby.
Chat Room Etiquette
NO USING ALL CAPITOL LETTERS – unless sparingly and necessary
Ask someone in the public chat if they want to private message, hitting them up with pm’s when not already being invited is bad manners to most people.
Be nice to the moderators, mods are busy people, and we have a lot on our plates. We can easily misunderstand something someone is typing, so be polite. We can kick out and permanently ban you and your ip address just for taking up our time, being rude and short with the mods can make that happen faster.
Nick Name Guidelines -
Many people find conversations in chat room faster and easier when the screen name chosen has additional asl info – like: Sam-25m or Jenny31Lez or Mel29-f-CA – it’s not necessary, but helpful to have some additional info in your screen name.
The following are not allowed in nick names and will result in being kicked by the moderator:
No IM IDs (yahoo, msn, skype, etc) or e-mail addresses
No phone numbers
No URL based names
Any nickname with incest, rape, or pedophile in it or any variation deemed unsuitable by the moderator(s).
Further, the use of cam or webcam or camera is not allowed in nick names. This is for your protection from web cam scammers. If a nick name contains cam or some derivative of that, be aware that that individual could be a web cam scammer. DO NOT GIVE ANYONE YOU MEET ONLINE A CREDIT CARD NUMBER!!!
The word Boy in a nick is highly discouraged. Either drop boy from your nick name or add your age to the nick name.
unacceptable-sex-chat-screen-names
This web site follows the ASACP guidelines for unacctable terms – using any of the terms listed above in your screen name or lobby conversations will get you permanently banned from using this web site.
Be defensive
I set my settings to auto-open pms (private messages) in a new window, you may want to (especially females) set your settings to auto-ignore all pms. You can tell people that you have your settings this way – so pming you without asking first is just a waste of time for them.
If people ask for your IM addy, (yahoo, MSN, skype, etc) or email address, beware that they could be trying to get info to sell to spammers. We have caught a few shady people asking us to add them on yahoo or MSN, only to later ask that we go to a website url to watch their “live sex cam” – clicking on unkown links can put your computer in harms way. Watch out for viruses and malware. I do not reccomend anyone give out their email or IM addys to people, it’s an easy way to end up on a spam list that gets resold to other spammers.
Use the ignore button! If you don’t like what someone is saying in the lobby, or to you, click their name and click the ignore button! Poof- they are gone!
If anyone tries to solicit you to engage in another commercial sex chat site, or try to get you send money or credit card information, send a private message to one of the moderators if they are in the room and let them know. We don’t want our users to get scammed, spammed, or solicited for commercial anything in our free chat rooms, so help us help you, and help others, by reporting any of that activity.
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I personally love the site (sex chat sex chat) there is one thing I would like to see happen if at all possable,, When a Reg threatens anyone (a Reg or a user) in the room that they are getting thier friend to come into sex chat and hack into anyones computer that person should be at the very least told they will be banned. I am sure it is mostly talk and i know the MOD”S are very busy.
This is Rude of a person to say and is intimidateing to the chatters. I personally was NOT threatened but I have been in the room and watched this go on and on more then one occasion. I understand the MOD’s are busy but ignoreing these comments i would think are not acceptable. If that could just be added to the Etiquette and Rules at some point. No one likes a Bully.
Thank You for this site We do enjoy it very much and we know you have worked hard to make it great for everyone.
Casey
i really like those rules…will be back because of those rules
i like how guyz make me moan and screan mMm…
I was booted for accidently mentioning another website! I didn’t even know!! Your moderators are uneducated idiots and the site is crap!
Good rules and hope everyone follow it
i need women for sex
The rules are fine and all, but it is very ridiculous that people get kicked off for nothing at all. I was kicked off because some jerk wants to be a jerk in the lobby and I said something. We are all adults and should act like it. It is a sex chat site and should not be treated as a kindergarten site. If one person can express their opinions, then they should learn how to accept others opinions as well. It is ridiculous and very much unappreciated. Wildmatch was much more enjoyable. Sorry.
Hey, I think I was unfairly banned for typing a rhyme up. I didn’t expect to be banned for posting it, I have no clue how to give you my IP so it can be unbanned or if I’ll be banned for long. Anyway this rhyme occord today 28th of Novenber 2009 and I have emailed you about it too. I didn’t cause anybody offence.
“We used to pretend that are relationship was
Completly Platonic, but you’d get horny everytime
It was Late and I blazed the cronic,computer Love
And Tonic Wine, Trickle from the Grape Vine, I’ve
Got so many ways to tickle your fancy and mine,
Old Fashioned Like Wine and Dine, Talk Listen
Polite Take Advice Way too Nice Pure Like Ice,
My Tongue Fold and caress Like Origami, Exposed
Erogenous Zones I find In new places To cause
Excitement, Pleasure Dictated In Force or Ballance
Elevated Heights Gasps eye-contact and Paces
Prolongged Whilst Sharing the throne With A Queen
Or Priestess That Recognize A King, Humble With
My Presence Unmanifest Above and Below Everything”
If I thought I would have been kicked for my mating call I wouldn’t have sung it. Please reinstate my IP
I don’t like this site anymore and I will not return. A lot of the people who use girls names end up being guys (over 90% I am sure) and the only way to know is by asking them to see them on their webcams, and now you cant even mention it in the main chatroom??? That is a joke. I will not return. I will visit the chatforfree website instead! Byeeeeeee!!
These rules, while seemingly benevolent, often allow for abuses by those enforcing them and the individuals they are also pertaining to.
Take “Hate Speech” for example (which is not allowed). The brief definition of this term is: is speech perceived to disparage a person or group of people based on their social or ethnic group,[1] such as race, gender, age, ethnicity, nationality, religion, sexual orientation, gender identity, disability, language ability, ideology, social class, occupation, appearance (height, weight, skin color, etc.), mental capacity, and any other distinction that might be considered by some as a liability.
I am a Buffalo. On many occasions, my client’s gender identity (which is difficult to determine) has been attacked on several occasions. This is mainly because my client is a Buffalo as well. Additionally, my client’s language ability and mental capacity have been subjected to blatant verbal assaults.
Despite the obvious–and almost unanimous–hatred for the Buffalo, it is almost an unwritten rule that those who disparage the Buffalo are immune from punishment. In contrast, a Buffalo doing the same (usually in self-defense) is either immediately warned or banned. Fascat_(m), a moderator, has proven such instances to be true.
There many other instances of this double standard, but I cannot divulge into them at the moment. I will say that the inconsistency to regulate these etiquette rules and TOS not only undermine their existence, but is subversive to the very ideals the moderators attempt to enforce.
It’s time for change. It’s time for hope.
It’s time for Buffalo equal rights.
So i was joking around with the skype thing it took me coming here 7 times to find out you cant do that! sorry please let me back on!
thx!
luv beth (hornybeth)
Hello SexChat Community,
well I have been around in a few sex chats and was able to gain some experience in this exciting online Community. My intention always has been to make these chats a comfortable place for the regulars and everyone new. What I like about this chat is the way it is set up and especially all the regulars here.
Sadly there are always Camgirls or rude people in these chats and hardly any moderators online. It is difficult to have a conversation with someone in the main when someone else always says “looking for some tight p****y PLEASE PM ME”
So with this said I would like to offer my help to this community and hope I will receive a message from whom this may concern.
Thank you.
Marcel
Hey, Steve,
Thanks for the updates to the rules. Appreciate it and it makes the job for the MODs a bit easier.
I love the way this site makes provision for older and younger people. The big number of chatters also makes it interesting and nice to visit.
I appreciate the Mods in here and the amount of time they spend to make it a nice place to be – experience from other chats just make this one so much more user friendly.
I love coming here…
Bigguy
Its been a long two years
I would like to be able to help moderate in the chat. Please let me know if I can help.
Just looking for some good ol chats
Hello,
I was recently banned for flooding but what had happened my friend went onto my computer and he likes to mess with my things so he decided to flood the main lobby, so to the moderators would you please un-ban me and it will never happen again I have been a user on here for a few months and I have enjoyed it so Im just asking for sympathy.
pls un banned meeee..plsssss
This is a really great site and the mods rock!!!! but i was curious as to the language debate, should alternate languages be used only in private chat, the site is based in english. This not meant as a racist remark, but due to the fact mod’s do not speak all languages, they can not possibly know what these people are saying and it can be a risk. Just curious. Once again I love you guys!!!
i just tried logging in and it said my address was banned, i was wondering why.
love this site, and all the amazing people on it
lovely woman here?
i have been visitng this site since 2- 3 years…and i know some moderators well..i love this site because it truly satisfies me…
but today i accidently typed the same thing twice..and ended up being banned!!
didnt even get a warning..like others get..
this has really pissed me off a lot…
missing u guys all!!
i agree thoes rules are great
thank you i love thoes terms
i like this very much. i admire the rules
look i love this site it pleases me but i do not EVER get warnings and i really hate it when i dont and other ppl do this has happened several times and now im BANNED for a minor infraction i was sayin sumthing innocent and my comp glitched and sent the message in twice and i was banned i really find this annoying honestly i even tried to say sorry to the mod but no he just kicked and banned me WTF
I got banned for using all caps and typing the same message over and over….
Didnt know that was not welcome….
I promise something like this wont happen again….
….. My bad