Kicked or banned from chat room?

Well maybe you did something wrong, and maybe you didn’t. People are sometimes auto-kicked by the system to this page for typing one of our banned words into the chat. Did you get kicked from the room and see a message about profanity? Info about the profanity filter / banned words kicks. Click here.

Sometimes people are kicked to this page by one of our chat room moderators as a way to force people to read the rules. In most cases these “temporary kicks” will auto-expire in 10 minutes, or a few hours. This gives people a chance to read the rules and understand that they have been warned.

Every once in a while people get kicked here by accident, as sometimes when we try to kick or ban someone the user list moves and the wrong person gets sent here.

In some cases people are permanently banned when sent to this page. If you try to come back to the chat 24 hours later and the system says ‘name or ip banned’; then you have likely been “perma banned”.

The list of chat room rules that most people get kicked


18 and over only.

No one under 18, or pretending to be under the age of 18 years, is allowed to use this site.

Asking another person to pretend that they are less than 18 years old is not allowed.

Talking about sex involving anyone who is not 18 or older, even when reminiscing about your college sex days, or your first sexual experiences (if someone involved was not yet 18) is not allowed.

If you are aware of a user who is not 18 or older you need to alert the moderator(s).

Impersonating another user is strictly prohibited and will get you permanently banned from using this chat system.

No flooding the room with the same comment over and over again.

Example:

  • Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
  • >Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
  • > Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?
  • Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat? Hey ladies Im a guy wanna chat?

Phone numbers, social networking pages (Facebook, Myspace, etc), messenger IDs (yahoo, msn, aim, gtalk, skype, meebo, etc), and email addresses are not allowed in the public chat areas.

Example:

  • Call me 555-5555
  • add me on — fake.email@not.real.net
  • Here is my profile www.myspace-facbook.com/profile/
  • Here is my im / yahoo / msn id! Hot/f /22/earth imma.scammer

Do not promote commercial or affiliated products, services, websites or other chat systems.

Example:

  • Check out fakedatingonline.com filthy rich, hot and horny.
  • Check instant-growth-brand cock enlargement pills!

Hate speech, religious topics, and political conversations are not permitted in the public rooms. If you want to discuss such topics you may create another room.

Examples:

  • Government Leaders
  • Current wars
  • Racism
  • Attacking any Faith
  • Promoting any religion

Important additional information about racial jokes, ethnic statements and hate speech here.

English Only in the main chat rooms
The main system rooms (The lobby, lesbian action, group sex room, etc.) – are English language only. If you want to chat in a different language, you can do so via pm, or better yet, create your own “side room” or user created chat room and you can use a different language there.

NO ALL CAPS
No continual use of complete capitol letters is allowed, unless they are used sparingly. Usage of ALL CAPITOL LETTERS is considered to be YELLING in most online chat worlds.

Example:

  • User6903: HI EVERY ONE I AM HORNY PLEASE CHAT WITH ME!!!!
  • Moderator: User6903, please ease up on the caps.
  • User6903: I LOVE MY CAPS!!!! I WILL ALWAYS USE THEM!
  • User6903 has been kicked by Moderator

Kill, mame, cutting, snuff, etc
Maming, self mutilation, cutting, killing, dolcet, snuff, and crap like that – now banned completely, system wide.

Posting pics / videos (or links to media) of anyone who is not 18 or older is not permitted here.
This includes pics where there is no hardcore penetration or nudity.

Posting links to pics, videos, or to web sites, where the age of majority is difficult to discern, or they fall below Nash’s trust rank of 80 is not allowed.

Parasite Sites / Collections / Out of Context Sexualization
Sites that collect and sexualize in ways that were not intended by those that were in the photos / videos. (even non-nude sites!)

If you choose to post pics, or links to pics / videos – click here to read these content guidelines to determine if the media / web site fall below our trust rank.

Arguments / Drama / Flame wars, fanning

We prefer that arguments not be ongoing drama in the lobby. If you disagree with another user, agree to disagree and do not fill up the chat window with flame wars, or fan the flames either. Use the ignore / block button to silence someone who is typing what you don’t want to hear. People who continually argue, or continue to attempt to entice others in arguing can and will be banned from the site.

Harassment
Harassing other users, a group of users, or the moderators is grounds for being kicked, banned, and or prosecuted. This has been a part of the terms of service since the site was started. I am re-mentioning it here to bring your attention to it, additional info is found on our terms of use page. There are serious issues with not only being kicked from the chat room, but also in us recording and giving up your personally identifying information in cases of harassment.

Harass – (from webster’s dictionary online) (1) : to annoy persistently (2) : to create an unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct

harassment (from http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/harassment ) (either harris-meant or huh-rass-meant) n. the act of systematic and/or continued unwanted and annoying actions of one party or a group, including threats and demands. The purposes may vary, including racial prejudice, personal malice, an attempt to force someone to quit a job or grant sexual favors, apply illegal pressure to collect a bill, or merely gain sadistic pleasure from making someone fearful or anxious. Such activities may be the basis for a lawsuit if due to discrimination based on race or sex, a violation on the statutory limitations on collection agencies, involve revenge by an ex-spouse, or be shown to be a form of blackmail (“I’ll stop bothering you, if you’ll go to bed with me”). The victim may file a petition for a “stay away” (restraining) order, intended to prevent contact by the offensive party. A systematic pattern of harassment by an employee against another worker may subject the employer to a lawsuit for failure to protect the worker. (See: harass, sexual harassment)

Be Defensive!
If there is a user who is talking about something that you do not want to hear or is continually pming you after you have asked them to stop, simply click their name on the list of users (participants panel) and select ‘Block User’ – you will not be able to see any of their comments for the rest of your login time. It’s the magical “poof! They are gone button, otherwise known as the iggy button! This could save you from getting kicked or banned, and save your sanity.

GFA Clause
If you are generally fucking annoying, you may be kicked or banned. This includes all kinds of things, and may mean different things to different people, but if for example you just type some gibberish, or try to make fun of the rules, or push the limits, or just post some stupid you tube links, or do anything else that annoys the group or one of the moderators you may be kicked or banned under the GFA clause.

Some topics and screen names are only allowed in certain niche rooms.

Edge-play / taboo terms (terms that are not well accepted in the mainstream world) are not allowed to be in the lobby. Certain discussions / screen names that may be tolerated in one room may be reason for a kick or ban in another room.

If you send private messages to people that include edge play / taboo terms and they did not ask for those types of message, you may be permanently banned from the system.

Examples:

Abusive, forced sex, humiliation or rape like names or discussions are not allowed in the main rooms such as the lobby, and are only allowed in the forced sex fantasy room, a user created room, or perhaps the BDSM room, if others there at the time do not find offense to the discussion.

Any type of incest type of discussion is not permitted in any of the system created rooms aside from the family fun room.

Golden showers and the like are only permitted in the squirting room, or a user create room.

Coming into the Lesbian action room with a dick avatar, screen name that includes references to male genitalia or talking about dick / cock in the open room or via unwanted pms, will get you kicked or banned from the system. Same applies to anyone who would come into the gay / bisexual men chat room and start talking about female anatomy graphically and in the open room. This includes fictional names and terms like futa.

There are too many niche and fetish things to list here, but be aware that if you have a screen name, or engage in a discussion, or use an avatar that a majority of people in the chat room you are in find offensive, you should create your own room, or you may be asked to change, or be kicked / banned.

Nickname Guidelines

Many users include their age-sex-location in their screen name. Doing this is not necessary but it is rather helpful and will help decrease the time it takes to find a session.

Examples:

  • Jenny f-25-uk
  • Sexy Man-39-TN
  • Hard4you 19-m-india
  • Wet&wild 46/f/Australia

IM IDs (yahoo, skype, gtalk, msn, etc) social networking profiles, and emails are not allowed to be used as names.

Examples:

  • Imma.scammer6969(sk ype me)
  • Hotbabe1990@example.com
  • Horselongdong at FB

Phone numbers are not permitted in names.

Examples:

  • Call me 555-555-555
  • Hot phone sex!! 1-888-211-6096

Url based nicknames are not allowed.

Examples:

  • FreeVirusesForBadPorn.com
  • Chatsiteforphoneys.com
  • www.website.com

This web site follows the ASACP guidelines for unacceptable terms – using any of the terms listed below, or similar variations in your screen name or lobby conversations will get you permanently banned from using this site.

unacceptable-sex-chat-screen-names
unacceptable-sex-chat-screen-names

Any name with pedophile, child, kid, or any other terms that suggest that you are underage or are looking for some one underage, or is any variation deemed unacceptable by a Moderator(s).

Examples:

  • Pedro phile 24 m
  • Horny4kds 32 f
  • Lookin4HS FreshmenChicksM 18
  • Lilly f 15

The terms boy and girl are highly discouraged. If you want one of these terms in your name, you should add your age to your screen-name so that your age is made clear.

Examples:

Questionable Names:

  • Young Hard Boy
  • Small Girl Pussy

Acceptable Names:

  • Lil wet girl18
  • Hard boy19

Taboo / Edge Play Terms in Screen Names

If your screen name may be offensive to a majority of people in a certain room, then you should not be there.

eg – Having a screen name with dick, cock, or eludes to such imagery in the lesbian room is not allowed.

If your screen name eludes to something taboo, make sure you are aware of the taboo terms / edge play discussions rules posted above.

Coming to the rooms with a name including rape, abuse, incest, bestiality, or another controversial term or a variation, you may get kicked from the system if you stay in the lobby. Edge-play / taboo terms (terms that are not well accepted in the mainstream world) are not allowed to be in the lobby. However, you can keep terms that are not accepted in the lobby, as long as they are allowed in the system, if you go to another room such as the forced sex room or the family fun room that do not find the terms offensive.

There is some grey area here with screen names – help!
Names like these should only be in a bdsm or forced sex type of room (not in lobby, les room, ffr, etc)

Abuser
Brutal Dom
Punishing Sluts
kick my balls
Sadistic Master
degrade me please
brutal daddy
Blonde Torturer
Virgin wants to be abused
Treat you like meat
Abusive Husband
piece of shit whore for dom m

Names like these may be okay in the lobby type rooms, but if your open discussions, or unasked for pms included taboo terms, then you may be kicked or banned.

slaveboyslave here for use
A vicious Man
Deeply Depraved Master
Bondage Bitch
Sick Fucking Pervert

Additional information regarding rules in relation to taboo terms, edge play discussions, niche fantasy and role play can be found on the content guidelines page.

Chat Room Etiquette

Intro and ask before pm
Be polite; ask someone in the main chat if they would like to PM with you before start to private message them. Many people, especially women, consider PMing without asking first to be very rude.

If you send private messages to people that include edge play / taboo terms and they did not ask for those types of message, you may be permanently banned from the system.

Not all topics are allowed in the main lobbies. For this reason we have created several niche rooms, and users have the option to create their own room. If you want to take part in such discussions simply click the green arrow and door icon door-icon at the top of the chat area to change to your desired fantasy room. (See info above about taboo terms and edge play discussions and screen names)

We have an active community of regular users, also known as regs, here on our site who are usually friendly and helpful. If you’re new here, take some time to get to know the regs and the moderators. Just like in real life, the relationships online take some time to build, so hang out for a while to get to know the other users and vice versa. Enjoy the banter, the interchanges, the craziness, and the humor and you’ll be just fine. Remember, patience and courtesy go a long way to help you learn about how to use the site and help you find a person to have a great sex chat session.

Use Iggy!
The ignore button is a great feature! If someone is pming you with out permission, or saying things in the chat room that you do not want to hear, simply click their name on the list and select ‘block user.’ You will not see any comment by that person for the rest of your login period in the chat site.

The Moderators

Our chat rooms have volunteer Moderators who help people and enforce the rules to provide our users with a safe and fun chatting environment. When a Moderator is in their ‘Admin’ role, their name will appear red in the list of names to the right of the chat area. Please remember Mods are people too, who want to enjoy conversations with friends and they often have private messages and whispers that they are keeping track of along with the lobbies and other rooms. If you have a problem or witness a serious infraction you are more than welcome to pm a Moderator for help and tell them about the incident, which they will be happy to help you with.

Sometimes the Moderators will be in the room but will not appear in red. Sometimes a moderator will be in a room with a regular screen name, and not in moderator / admin mode. Sometimes a moderator or site admin could be in a room and be completely invisible. Some moderator’s names will appear as yellow or purple. If you need help go into the main lobby and ask for a Moderator, chances are that there will be a Mod logged in or someone who can reach a Moderator for you.

Please be nice to the Moderators, they are very busy people and have a lot of different things to take care of in the rooms. They can easily misunderstand something a person types, so be polite and patient! To make sure the room is taken care of Moderators are given the power to warn (an alert shows up on the selected user’s screen), freeze (the user is unable to talk for a period of time), kick (the user is removed from the room for several minutes to a day) and ban a user and their IP address from our chat system forever.

Many times our moderators will warn and or educate a user before they are kicked / banned – but this is not always the case, there is no rule that moderator must warn before kicking a user who is breaking the rules.

Got complaints? Questions?

If you have a general question or complaint about being kicked out of the chat room, you can post a message in the comment form at the bottom of this page, or use the contact us page to email Admin Nash (site owner) directly.

If you have a complaint about a Moderator or the moderator procedures, there is a Moderator complaint page where you can alert the site owner, or post a public comment asking for info.


You could of been kicked or banned by accident

The chat rooms here get pretty busy, and when moderators click on the names to kick or ban, sometimes the list moves and we end up banning the wrong person. It happens, and if it has happened to you, we apologize, it’s the moving list, and once in a while it’s human error. More than likely the list moved in the process, and the wrong person got bumped. No need to freak out though, when that happens the ban is generally temporary, and you are not added to our forbidden access list. If you were on the forbidden access list, you wouldn’t be reading this post right now.

Violating Sexchatsexchat.com’s Terms of Service, the chat room’s rules, content guielines, or etiquette policies will result with you being kicked from our chat services temporarily or possibly being permanently banned. Some kicks/bans only last for five minutes, while other may last one hour, six hours, twelve hours, or even twenty-four hours. Users who have committed major offenses will be permanently banned. Users who were banned from the chat system and still cannot join the chat after waiting 25 hours, have been permanently banned.

It’s been 25 hours and the chat box still says name or ip is banned. Can I get this ban lifted?

Well first please read the netiquette rules, it only takes a few minutes. Please ask questions in the comments section on that page if you are unclear about any of the rules, and we will work to clarify. Double check that you understand the rules, the content guidelines and terms of service. Maybe you did something innocent and didn’t know that it violates our policies. Sometimes that happens, and if it has happened to you, send me comment below, and explain to me that you have read and understand the rules, and promise to play by them. I’ll consider the situation.

Please note –
Some of the rule infractions will cause permanent banning, and no promises or begging will get you unbanned ever. I’m not going to list all of the things that will make a ban stick forever, but just so you know, if you have posted web addresses to other commercial sites, asked for money, or played like you were not an adult, then you will be forever banned from the site. There are other things that people have done that have led to a permanent ban as well.

Before you ask about your kick or ban from the chat room in the comments below – wait at least 24 hours. Many times when a user is kicked or banned from the chat room by one of our moderators, the ban only last for 10 minutes, or an hour, or 24 hours. 90% of the time when someone asks about being banned and for how long in the comments below, by the time I get to see the comment and look it up, the ban has already expired / auto-cleared by the system.

3,578 thoughts on “Kicked or banned from chat room?”

  1. im sorry,

    i posted a youtoube link. i really didnt know we couldnt do that. could u unban me. it wont happen again and i read all the etiquette rules this time. if there is anymore complaint from me or misdeed ban me for life. it was an honest mistake.

    thanks,
    james

    1. I also wanted to add that I didn’t wait the 24 hours, as i read some bans are temporary for the user to read the etiquette rules, because I was hoping to be let back in before the 24 hours. sorry for the inconveniance.

      -james-

      1. it could also have been my nickname which wasnt good either. i was trying to play the dominant role like some names have master infront of them but i used a stupid one (hitler). sorry about that. wont happen again, i didnt know it was against the rules till i read them. those are the only 2 things i could think of for being the reason i was banned. (hopefully just temporary).

        1. Well I think you may be right about it finally – it was probably that screen name that got you permanently banned. it certainly would be a valid reason as being indicative of hate speech and highly offensive for the lobby especially. There is no specific reason logged for the ban however, and I would need to speak with the mod that placed the ban to see if there was any other reasons for the ban as well. For now I am going to assume it was the name, and the ban is set to permanent, which is reasonable just for choosing the name.

          1. i apologize and it won’t happen again, if u could give me another chance i could prove it to you. There will be no more complaints from me as I have read the rules now.

      2. Well James, you read that most bans expire automatically in less than 24 hours, yet you still took the time comment and ask before then, which takes up my time. At least you said you were sorry for that.

    2. James – you said that you read all of the etiquette rules this time, if that is so, then how could you think you were banned for posting a Youtube video? I am pretty sure that it specifically says Youtube videos are okay, as long as you don’t flood the room with lots of links quickly.

  2. i was banned for some reason and i dont know why. i did not know that there where rules and i’m sorry for braking them. u most likely wont give me a second go but could you consider it.

    1. There is nothing about you in the ban list pooja. So I assume your ban was temporary and auto-expired as most do. This gives you a chance to read and understand all of the rules. I assume that you can once again enjoy the sex chat rooms at this time.

      1. nick – there is nothing about you in the ban list. You should re-read the rules to be sure that you are not perceived as breaking any in the future. Be sure to understand the info and link about the profanity filter and the auto-kick there. Also be sure to re-read and understand the part about most bans auto-expiring in less than 24 hours, thus making it a complete waste of time to post any comments here unless you are still unable to access the sex chat room after 24 hours.

    1. swetha – there is nothing about you in the ban list – are you still unable to access the sex chat? Did you wait 24 hours, then try again before posting this comment?

  3. Hey,

    I am logging in after a very long time. The last time i was here there weren’t any issues. I dunno why I am banned now. Can you get me in quick? I am home alone and this is the best place to be..:(

    1. I do not see anything about you in the ban list Horny19YOMale – Did you wait 24 hours, then try again, and then post your comment here?
      Are you still having issues accessing the sex chat rooms?

    1. There is no ban on you perm – perhaps you failed to read the part that says most bans auto-release in 24 hours or less, and that for that reason you should read all the rules, get a thorough understanding of them, and do not waste your time or especially mine by posting ban questions here unless it has been more than 24 hours first. Sheesh.

    1. One of our moderators was pming you and inquiring about your screen name and asking for your age, and you did not respond. So your age had come into question. We have some guidelines for screen names that are listed above. Since you did not reply to the moderator, a ban has been placed on you. You will need to follow the instructions on the get verified page to prove your age and then we can lift your ban.

  4. i was banned about a week ago, and while trying to login in, i ran across the rules/etiquette/etc and read everything as best as i could. i believe that i broke the rules when i told the person who banned me that i would play as an age other than what my real age is and also informed the person who banned me what my real age was. i read that i should wait a day or two and I did, was allowed back in but then tried again friday and now today and it shows that i am banned again. i should have read the rules closer before logging in and playing on the website. is it possible to get the ban lifted on me or am I out forever? Thank you.

    1. male4fun – thank you for taking the time to thoroughly read and understand the rules we have established, and hopefully you have a better understanding of the rules and why we have set them up this way. I have not gone into details about the reasons for the age play rules – but there are many reasons for them let me assure you. The easiest way for me to take care of this situation for you would be for you to do the steps on the get verified page – that way we can verify it was a play scenario.

      1. I was asked what my age was (and gave it) after only saying that i like to play. I never represented myself as being any age other than the truth.

  5. i did not read the regulations in the begining and i should of . A lot of people where always posting or asking for cam or pic and I never did and skype so today I decided to . Well I am banned and i read it is not allowed and understand why. I will not longer do this and follow all rules.

    1. “big tits 4 u” – I am glad you have taken the time not only to read the rules but to understand why we have that no asking for cam / skype etc rule – Thank you for understanding and agreeing to make sure not to do things like that. We may have some on site cam options early next year that will give users a way to do things like that and take away the avenue for scammers and professional cam girls from snatching people’s ids for spam. Anyhow, I think your ban was a temporary kick giving you a chance to read the rules, so I think you should again be able to access our free sex chat rooms without a problem at this time.

    1. amandababy – I do not see anything about you in the ban list. I am guessing perhaps you were kicked for a short, temporary, auto-expiring time. This should of given you enough time to read the rules and find something that may have been cause for you to be kicked for a short time. Although maybe you did not read all the rules on the page, if you had, then you would of seen the notices where it asks people to wait 24 hours before posting a comment here about getting banned. Perhaps your comment would of been better suited on the moderators complaints page. I assume that you now know that you can once again re-enter the free sex chat rooms. Hopefully you will do so with a better understanding that we are serious about enforcing the site rules.

      1. I have personally removed her from the room on more than one occasion. Every time I have, it has been a simple kick.

        The reason she keeps being removed is that she has presents with an attitude toward the moderators doing their duties. She makes rude comments about when the moderators (namely me) attempt to educate the participants or remind them of the rules of the site. She also refusesto stop the behavior even after being told to do so. She also refuses to stop after being warned her behavior will get her removed from the room.

        She has on several occasions been very rude and billigerent towards me. I do not recall the exact words but in essence telling me to shut the fuck up and let people enjoy the room. And who do I think I am and I can’t tell people what to do, etc.

        I explained that I work for the site and that I am simply doing what I can to enforce the terms of agreement everyone makes when they enter the room. She stated she didn’t agree to anything. I advised her that by entering the room, she agreed to abide by the terms of service of this site.

        I believe her belligerent attitude towards me stems from an encounter I had with her earlier in the room. She was repeatedly posting pic links and I thought they were the same pic over and over so I requested that she not spam the room. Another user pointed out to me that they were different pics each time, so I said that was ok as long as it wasn’t too much and I apologized to her.

        Since then she has been extremely rude and distastful in the room towards me. I give her a new chance each time she comes in but I will continue to remove her from the room if she is unable to understand the proper way to interact with the moderators.

        Please let me know if you would like any further details regarding this kick.

        Thanks so much,

        Tasty Temptress

        1. Your not the only one she has been rude to Tasty, she has done the same things with me when trying to warn or educate people.

  6. 1.ANY GIRL’S HAS NOT CHATING WITH ME .
    2.IF THEY CHAT WITH ME MEANS NOT RESPONSE PROPERLY.
    3.LATE REAPLY ALSO.
    4. SO OLY V ARE FLOTING IN THE MAIN IF ANY GIRLS WILL SEE .

      1. Noughty guy – if you are saying that other people are flooding the chat room as well and they should be banned, then you are right. In fact we will be paying more and more attention to this and banning all of the annoying people who flood the chat room needlessly. We are also working on code updates so that our chat system automatically bans people who do this.

    1. Noghty guy 0 I am still not quite understanding what you are saying. If you are implying that you need to flood the chat room in order for girls to see you, then you are mistaken. If you flood the chat room to get attention from girls you will be banned from the site permanently,

  7. any girls’s not reaplying and has not chating with me if they chat means not response properly to me so oly am flotting and late reaply also tats it

    1. Delhi Male – do you have any idea why you were banned from the chat room? What rules you might have been breaking? What etiquette you may have been violating?

      1. i dont know…. i have been doing same things as others are doing….may be i need to be more careful from now onwards. Will u unbann me?

        1. DElhi Male – and all the others have been or will be banned as we see them as well. Sorry you did not understand the rules before you used our site.

    1. “scoolboy” – you will need to get verified before we can further discuss your ban. If you will not or can not follow all of the instructions exactly on the get verified page, then you will be permanently banned from using our free sex chat rooms, and using the chat options at our partner sites. If you do not “get verified” – then please do not return to our site ever again, and please do not bother to comment or message me explaining why you won’t or cant’ – I really don’t care if you do or you don’t, or if you will or you won’t. I only care if you actually do it, and do it properly. Otherwise your privilege to use our sites is permanently revoked.

  8. I got banned for talking about msn in a private chat. I’m Jeff(M19Canada) and I’m on the site quite regularly and I thought you were allowed to talk about msn in private.

  9. Um…I just came in the room tonight….and then got kicked after saying “stupid rain keeping me awake.” I’m sure this was accidental and the list probably shifted when the mod kicked/banned whomever they were attempting to kick ban…..so uh…could i be unbanned again? Again…I’m sure it was a mistake. I know it happens. That was extremely odd.

      1. I was. But Nash unbanned me just the other day. So um could the ban be removed please? Seeing as I didn’t do anything wrong?

    1. “sexcammi” – I am not sure why you were kicked, as there are no notes in the ban log about you. I can guess however from your screen name that you would of been kicked for having “cam” in your name. We do not allow people to advertise or ask for cams, or have cam or sex cam in their screen names currently. This is a rule to keep out the professional cam whore trolls – but the rules applies to everybody.

      We may change how we handle these things in the future, as we intend to roll out some on site cam options for our users next year, and may even develop a system where cam whores can do some advertising, but for now that is the way it is.

      1. I have talked with her several times about not using that name and she keeps coming back in with it.

        Thanks,

        Tasty Temptress

  10. i dont know it was wrong to chat with guy *term edited by admin* 18 please allow me to access ur resources i read the terms and netiquett rules

  11. Hi. I was kicked from a Lobby, and I assume banned, yesterday. At first it took me by surprise, and I couldn’t imagine what I could have said to have warranted being kicked out. It almost felt like I must have been coming across as merely annoying and was kicked out for that reason alone. Then I thought about it and now I’m pretty sure what it was about, and I can see how what I said must have sounded to someone who didn’t really see it in the context of what had been said by me and others in the stream of loose conversation. You’ll probably have to censor this message, but I was kidding around and said jokingly, “Any c*cks wanna see my ladies?” in response to a persistent person who kept asking “Any ladies wanna see my c*ck?” Looking back, this probably does sound rude, if taken out of context, plus I unfortunately have a droll sense of humor and don’t normally qualify sarcastic comments with “smilies” or “LOL’s”. So I feel like an idiot, for sure, if this is the reason I was kicked. I had also joked a few messages prior about another persistent commenter’s unrelenting, line-after-line petitions, but I’m sure that message only seemed weird, not offensive, to any uninvolved passerby or moderator. I respect your site, have not ever had any trouble here before, and enjoy the chat rooms at this site. However, I also respect that you have a tough job here trying to police all of the improper (and at times *term edited by admin*) things that people say and do, and that you have to make your decision to kick or ban and move on, as there are thousands of other users to watch as well. I’m not here to beg for this ban to be lifted, but I did want to at least explain where that comment came from and note that I’ve never used seriously angry or insulting language to other chatters before. And if I’m waaaay off base and am missing the real reason I was kicked entirely, then I apologize. This is the only thing I could think of that might have been misinterpreted and caused my being kicked and banned. I would love to use your site again, but obviously I have to respect your ultimate decision. Sorry for the long message here, but thank you for your time.

    1. And BTW, I do apologize for not waiting the full 24 hours to leave a comment here. I read through the rules, etc., but I admit I obviously didn’t register that part. I still don’t know what the ban is for, but if it lifts in the 24-hour period, then I do apologize for that.

    2. From reading your comment I can certainly see how you could of been engaging in a back and forth with another user who may have been flooding the chat room, and who was skirting the edge of our rules. If you had done this several times then you would of been flooding the chat window, which is against the rules. If I had just come into the chat room and seen your message, I would assume that you were trying to cyber pimp some cam whores or something, it sounds like you are offering cam girls – which is very much against the rules. You would be kicked with a perma ban immediately, as we certainly do not allow people to come in here and start advertising for commercial services. I guess you can see how your comments would be viewed by others, especially if they did not recognize the back and forth with the other user making a similar comment.

      In the future I suggest using the “block / ignore” feature to make annoying users such as that disappear – you can read more about my thoughts of users who start to take jabs at each in the chat room, and my suggestions for handling it, via this post: the challenge to the regs.

  12. I accidentally had a bad nickname and got banned without warning, I guess it’s my fault for not really reading the rules but I think that’s pretty harsh. I’m 19 and I’m a short girl with tiny breasts. So I came up with the name “*term edited by admin* Devil” ’cause I don’t think *term edited by admin*’s necessarily have to be underage just underdeveloped. I didn’t realize I could be banned for doing that and I’m sorry. This is like the best chat I’ve found on the web so I’d really hate to give it up. Can I be unbanned?

    1. Sounds reasonable. I assume you had a chance to read our other rules as well and have a clear understanding that we have many firm rules and are quick to enforce them. I agree that not all banned words and terms always bad or used in a malicious way – but there are some things that have history of being abused by so many people that we have had to draw some lines. These lines mainly come from what other groups have determined are the most abused. I myself do not have any research to back it up, or make any judgments based upon people’s choice of language. To me it is more about the individual and what the intent is, with that being said there are plenty of ways to describe yourself without using the 40 or so banned nicknames – just be sure to also follow the other rules, terms of services and netiquette here as well, enjoy once again.

  13. Dear Sir/Madame

    I was banned for pretending to be 16 years old. I was unaware that that was breaking your rules and the mod that told me so did not make it clear that it was a rule and that he/she was a mod. I simply thought it was someone that doesn’t like the fact that i act 16 years old. As a result i was banned from the chat room, not even kicked out for a while. I am aware now that acting below 18 is not allowed, what do I have to do to be let back in

      1. Too bad, is there any other way? I am really not comfortable with sending my picture to a sex chat website and I’d hate to not be able to come here again, you guys are the best chat website I have found in ages.

        1. I am open to suggestions, but I think that’s pretty much the only way without setting up some kind of credit card payment type of a thing to prove age and identity. I believe it is mentioned on the get verified page that all pictures sent in are digitally shredded within 24 hours – but none the less, I don’t blame you for not wanting to send them in. I am guessing you can also see where we are coming from and don’t blame us for banning people who have been questioned as not being an adult using the site.

  14. i m 22 i m not xx(number edited by admin)
    i just say xx(number edited by admin) to attract girls buddy
    really sorry
    i m actually 22
    pls remove ur ban

    1. no. never.

      please dot not return to our web sites ever again. Your privilege to use our services has been permanently revoked.

      Nash Steve

    1. yes Mike, it’s permanent. Please do not return to our web site. You will also be permanently banned from using our partner web sites as well.

          1. i was asked what ageplay was and i explained it.i understand these things are strictly prohibited but i explained what it was.i didn’t ask for it.i feel this is an error but i understand your predicament and thank you for your time.

            1. I can see that happening. Sounds like you a firm understanding of the rules and know that we are serious about enforcing them – we’ll give you another chance.

  15. hey, actually i was posting some porn links… but i was doing that in a private window with someone…. i posted a couple of times in succession by mistake n the warning for profanity came(automated warning)..
    i forgot about it and then posted again and then was instantly kicked out/banned…
    how long is the ban… please lift it

    1. I dunno Kalina, I do not see anything about you in the ban log – so I am guessing that you were kicked or banned with a ban that lasts less than 24 hours. Our system auto-erases this kind of stuff. It could of been a minor infraction, or it could of been an accidental kick, could of been a connection issue or profanity / banned word auto kick or something – either way, I don’t know, which is why I ask users to wait at least 24 hours, then check to see if access is auto granted, then and only then post questions regarding why or whatever.

    1. There is nothing about you in the ban log. So either you were not banned and just had some connection problems, OR you were banned with a temporary kick, which has since auto expired. If it was a temporary kick, then there is no need to ask questions unless you have been banned for 24 hours or longer – make sense?

    1. There certainly was reasons for your ban. I suggest you re-read the rules and pay close attention to the rules about hate speech and being nice to the mods.
      If you become a problem again this regard, you will be permanently banned forever from this sex chat room, and our partner sites as well.
      You ban is currently set to expire in 4 hours from now – you are lucky the mod you ran into has some patience.

  16. Got banned all of the sudden – not sure what I did wrong. I did post a pic of myself in the main lobby, but it was supposed to be a whisper.. What did I do wrong? Happened pretty qucik…

    1. I would be a rare event to be kicked or banned for simply posting a picture of yourself. I do not see anything int he mod notes about a ban for you – so if you were banned by a mod, it must of been a short time based ban – but perhaps your ISP lost connection or something? Not sure what happened exactly, as I wasn’t there, and it wasn’t a “more than 24 hours ban” if one was placed, so I guess you can once again enter the free sex chat rooms at this time?

  17. pussycat (18 f)

    can somebody pl tell me whats wrong in saying “i will have great dreams now”? bcuz i seriously dont know how it is a profanity…if it is then i am really sorry, i was unaware!!!!!!!!!!! let me in!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    1. if you missed a space between the last two words, it would be dreamsnow – which contains the “MSN”; MSN is one of the profane / banned / bad words. If you posted that 4 times in a row, then you would be kicked from the chat room for 5 or 10 minutes for the first time kicked for profanity. Sorry about that, it’s a thing to keep the evil spam robots from abusing the site. More about the profanity kicks here.

    1. there is nothing about you in the ban list “rulz” – I guess you did not wait 24 hours before posting your question / comment?

    1. You were flooding the chat room – you will never be un-banned. Please do not return to our web site, or attempt to the use the free sex chat rooms of our partner sites either.

    1. “juicydesipenis” – There is nothing about you in the ban log. I guess you posted this comment before waiting 24 hours after your kick / ban?

      All users should wait 24 hours after being kicked before they post a comment or question here. Most bans auto-expire in less than 25 hours – nothing needs to be done, especially asking me to waste my time looking it up through all of the ban lists only to find there is no info saved.

  18. I was banned cuz I said yahoo/msn, when it was in private! I only wanted to keep in touch with someone because they RP so well, I would never try and post it in a public room or something like that, really! I believe that I was unfairly banned, or atleast thats how it seems to me, please please PLEASE contact back, whether unbanning me or not, I atleast want some kind of response.

    1. The “profanity filter” blocks words like skype, yahoo, msn, hotmail, stupid-free-cam-chat-spam dot com, and many others. This is necessary to prevent the automated spam bots and commercial spammers from abusing the room. It is okay to share an email in private if you are not doing so for commercial reasons, and the person you are sending the email to wants to get it – but you will have to be creative in order to do so. I tend to do something like nashty1 ATT yy aa h o o dotted com – most people can figure out what that means, and it will get by the profanity filter.

      The first two times you are kicked for profanity the ban auto-expires in about 10 minutes. I could be wrong on this, but I think it’s about that long. So you can probably re-access the free sex chat rooms at this time, now knowing that certain words are banned and will get you kicked.

      Again for anyone else reading this, you should wait to post a comment about being kicked or banned here until you have waited at least 24 hours and tried to enter again. Most bans will auto expire in less than hour, and some bans last just over 24 hours. Only if you have been banned for more than 24 hours should you post here asking about it.

      If you have a complaint about how the site is moderated, there is a moderator complaints page, and if you have an issue with the site itself and would like to make a suggestion, we have a page for that as well. ( sex chat site suggestions page here)

          1. dear admin sir why u r kicked me anything i can wrong so plz u tell me my email adress iwill e very thankful to u if u give permission for connecting free java sex chat plzzzzzz plzzzzzz thanks

            1. aditiya08 / ASAD0300 – the mod note say that you have been a pest, and that you have been flooding the chat room.
              I suggest you re-read the rules posted above and pay attention to the part about flooding.
              Also pay attention to the part that says you should wait at least 24 hours before posting a comment here about your ban.
              If you do not learn from the rules posted on this page, you are most likely to be permanently banned in the future.

            1. badboy – you have been labeled as GFA in the lesbian’s room. Sorry, we don’t need that kind of annoying idiotry ruining the experience of our chat rooms here, you can find somewhere else on the internet to chat.

            1. sorry my friend, I have no time to look into your ban this week. You will have to find somewhere else to chat.

      1. i have read over the terms and use and i see that it is to prevent scammers, i understand and i am sorry for the mistake, i would really appreciate if you un-banned me, thank you

        1. ridemycock – if you follow the information linked above about the profanity filter, you will see that those kinds of bans auto-expire after 5 or 10 minutes. I do not see your info in the ban log, so I assume that you can access the free sex chat rooms just fine right now, let me know if this is not the case. No need to ask about being unbanned unless you are still banned after 24 hours.

        1. pratz – do not return to our web site. If you attempt to re-enter our free sex chat rooms, I will report you to your local authorities for abuse of our terms of service, theft of service, and criminal trespass. I will also file a formal abuse complaint with your internet service provider and ask that your internet use be permanently disconnected.

      2. please un-ban me i didnt know sending out your email was not allowed. i m sorry i will never redo the mistake again please kindly apologize me

        1. dino cock – re-read the first two paragraphs at the top of this page, and click the info link about the profanity filter.

          If you ever get kicked again, and post a comment here before waiting 24 hours, your ban will then be changed to permanent. Read the rules on this page.

      3. I would like to be unbanned we were just sending porn videos that we liked back and forth it was not email or anything

        1. here4u – I do not see anything about you in the ban list. Perhaps you should re-read the info on this page, and pay particular attention to the info near the top with a link to additional information about the profanity filter.

      4. Ironic enough the profanity I was using wasnt even actually profanity according to your terms of rules etc. I said nothing about Yahoo, MSN, Hotmail, Skype, blah blah blah. So please explain to me why I was kicked out.

        1. C_28 – Our “profanity filter” does not kick people for cussing – saying dirty words is certainly a part of many sex chat conversations, so we do not use the chat script’s profanity filter for it’s original intention, we mainly use the profanity filter to stop people form spamming other commercial adult web sites, and common scam sites and such. With such a long list in the current set of “profanity” rules – we do at times get some kicks that are innapropriate. This is something that we have to constantly adjust, at times adding new domain names that people are newly spamming, and at times removing words or phrases that block some common discussions.

          It would be very helpful if you could remember / provide the exact words you entered that caused the profanity kick. Every once in a while our profanity filter behaves in a way that is unintended – because it is a semi-smart system, it tried to kick people for using similar expressions that are in the banned words list. We have had a few hiccups with this system, I think the most recent was something very generic like when someone said something like ” pleasure me now” – it was kicking for something like that because the phrase was very close to one of the banned domain names in the system “campleasure dot me” or something like that.

          The most common thing that happens to people is getting kicked for sharing an email addy, even in pm – like yahoo or hotmail. A while back we had some evil scammers that would come in under a girl’s screen name and start posting these kind of addresses, and then adding people to a spam list for popular sex drugs, and other adult web sites – then they would sell the list of names they acquired to other bad spam sites – so we do everything we can to stop them. Although you said in your comment that you did not post those particular words, at this point there are many phrases in the kick filter, so if you could provide me with some more details about what you typed, then I could investigate how and why the filter is kicking for those words, and try to find another way of blocking the intended phrases while allowing non-spam conversations to continue uninterrupted.

      5. ive been using this site from a long time,i dont think i have broken any rules.i am banned dont know why cn u please check it out.

      6. ZiggyTheRabbit

        Yes I was banned for saying just the word I was kicked and banned I was unware of that. And if there is away to properly give someone A email I’d like to know how so it does not happen again thank you

        1. ZiggyTheRabbit – there is info and a link above that explains the profanity filter, check that out.

        1. Dude, go back to the top of this page , and read the fifith sentence.
          Did you get kicked from the room and see a message about profanity? Or profanity filter, or use of profanity?
          I’m sure you will figure out why you were kicked for saying s k y p e in a pm twice.

      7. I couldn’t figure out why I was being banned. When the warning occured on the screen I asked the MOD why but didn’t get an answer. I primarily use the site sex.com, but was using x ham ster today. The warning, however, came after a post from sex.com. Are we supposed to analyze the URL before sending it out? Even when posting items from x hams ter the URL appears with —. I have seen that many times from many people. Please advise.

        1. 55MHorny4F – it sounds like you were warned by the chat room’s automated, banned words / profanity filter. This is not done by a human moderator, so it would make sense that you would not get a reply about it in the chat room. There is information about the profanity filter, why we have it, and how to avoid it’s wrath in the comment here. (This info is also linked at the top of this kicked / banned page, about the 5th line down.)

          I recently added xhanster to this list of banned words. I found that many people are sharing links to videos there, and as to where from an end user stand point, a site like xhamster might be a fun place to find stolen videos for free, from someone who is the in the business, xhamster, and the sites similar to it, are the reason that porn profits are down, jobs are down, and many production companies are not able to produce the quantity and quality or porn that once was. Of course the industry as a whole has other issues and reasons for that as well, but sites like xhamster take the theft and sharing to a whole new level. There are also many questionable videos there, that I am unsure should be online at all – but that is another discussion / issue.

          On top of all that, even if xhamster was one of the “good porn tubes” – we would not allow open room sharing if it, as some of them are in competition with some of our sites, or our partner sites. We also do not allow open sharing of sites like that, because we have had places send people to our chat rooms and advertise the videos at other sites – which is essentially getting free advertising from us, and without compensating us. We do have programs setup where other web sites can purchase ads on this web site, and our other partner sites – but if other sites do not take advantage of that, then they are in essence stealing from us. Of course spamming the chat rooms with un-vetted web sites also annoys our users, and puts them at risk of malware and other issues at times as well.

          So in short, I hope you understand why we do not want xhamster, or similar web sites posted in the open in the rooms. If you read the information in the link I provided, you will see that should you choose to use words that are in the banned words list, then you may do so in private, or via pm, and there are ways to do that will not kick in the auto-profanity filter. With that being said, if someone was to start random pming each and every person in each room with some spammy links, then they would end up perma banned for abusing other rules that we have here.

          Does all this make sense?

      8. OK, I don’t understand. If I post something that winds up in the room as “—“, I’m not posting the real site. I seem to get now though that I am not allowed to do even that. Just want to know that all others are receiving similar punishments, because it’s prevalent. I will comply with the rules in the future, because I know that if I don’t I will have a third strike on my hands and I do not want that.

        1. 55MHorny4F – If anyone types any of the banned words, or character strings, – even “yahoo”, three times, they are automatically kicked from the chat room, even me. I thought that was made pretty clear in the profanity filter information in the link posted above. So yes, all others are certainly receiving similar punishments.

      9. I have read the terms and use and dont really understand why i was banned. I think maybe it could have messaged to much in the chat log that maybe it was considered spam?

        1. not sure on this one strict – there is nothing in the ban log, which is unusual – I will look into it.

      10. hi i had no idia about the whole email thing im sorry that i did it and wont do it again so pla may i go back on

          1. yes i read them after it happened but the thing is it would have been nice too know these rules before i had entered the chat and again im sorry for disobeying the rules but had i known about the rules i would have never tryed too send my yahoo mail adress

            1. the banned words / profanity filter info here – explains that some banned words are just prevent the commercial spammers that used to plaque our chat rooms. The info there also explains methods that you can use to share an email addy including yaahhooo via pm without getting kicked 😉
              Also, the “profanity” filter, only kicks someone from the rule for about 5-10 minutes, then you can reenter the chat, the system automatically clears these temporary bans.

              No big deal really, now you know more of the rules and etiquette then you did before – cool.

          2. ty for all ur help but i have been trying for almost a hr now too get back into the chat but its still saying that i am baned still

            1. lady – that is very strange.. on the chat rooms page, hold down the shift key, and click reload / refresh page.

              I do not see your info in the ban list at the moment, hopefully it is clear now?

    2. I got kicked for simply being a bit saucy (I was in the family role play room and pretended I wanted to slice my daughter’s nipple off, while also being quite anti-Semitic) and some English geezer called mike threw me out! I am outraged! I love this site and am an avid user, now I have to go to inferior sites. At least here I believed what I said would be taken in jest, not jumped upon by newly appointed Czars who have no idea what fun is. I rest my case.

      1. Sorry, but we do have some firm rules about some things. As to where we try to be as liberal as possible in what we allow to be fantasized and joked about. There are some things that we have firm rules about being in certain rooms, and some things that are not allowed on site at all. One of the things you mention is something that we do not allow in any of the rooms, the anti-semitic stuff would fall into the hate speech rule guidelines I believe.

        Sorry naughty daddy, it’s just what the community here has decided should be the rules for a majority of the people, it’s not a Czar thing I assure you.

  19. finally, i finished reading the etiquette…. am sorry… i did blunder mistake by mistake by flooding the chat room… i didnt knew consequenses… i really loved the site… forgive me and ignore my ban… i will follow the etiquette here after…….

  20. i have been kicked and banned for flooding… i didnt do that intetionally…. i didnt knew result of that ….the site was superb… i need to enter it….. and will assure u that i will follow the etiquette always…. pls consider

      1. i was kicked for profanity. I wasn’t using profanity, pls restore me to chat. i see people using all kinds of words in forums without going prvt
        thanku

  21. hey i have been kicked and banned for flooding… i didnt do that intetionally…. i didnt knew the effects of floodings…. i love this site very much… i need to enter it….. and will assure u that i will follow the etiquette always…. pls consider

  22. Steve, i accidently kicked someone called tamara ? chasing a fucking idiot who logs in spams the room and runs ..
    We seriously need to find another way to be able to kick/ban people who do that coz the current method is way to slow
    Ange

    1. Tammanna (or something like that) has been unbanned now – thanks for the heads up. I added some notes about ban speed issues in the mods only discussion area too 😉

  23. huge cock or teen girls

    hi, i was banned for i think possibly posting pics of girls in the lobby, family fun room. i didnt realize u couldnt do that as i once got told it wa fine to do so. i love the site and and use it regulary and was hoping to get un banned pls, thanks

    1. Touchy issue, it was reported that the legal age of the people in the pictures you posted links to was in question. I was not in the room at the time, so I did not see the links or the pics, so I have no way to judge this. If you are 100% sure that the pictures you posted are all of adults over the age of 18, then you can send an email with the links you were posting. In the meantime, I will need to confer with one of the site moderators to try to get another side of the story and see if they have kept any info about this to compare what really happened – that may take a couple of weeks, and it may not be fruitful, so right now this situation will remain in limbo for a time, even if all parties want to pursue clarity of the situation. I can say that if you are not 100% sure that all images you linked to were of people who were all adults over the age of 18 at the time of the video or photos being taken, then please do not bother to waste any more of my time on this, I just don’t have much time right now, and spending it trying to determine things that people are unsure of would really not lean me towards helping in this ban situation.

      1. Boredguy – you say that you read the rules on this page and understand now. If that is the case, then how could you have missed the info about the profanity kicks that says the ban will auto-expire in less than 10 minutes, and that there is no need to comment here unless you are still unable to access the chat after 24 hours?

        There is nothing for anyone to do to “let you back in” – as the system automatically handles that by itself, unless your ban is still in effect 25 hours or longer after the initial kick.

    1. The issue logged in your situation calls for the need to follow all the instructions to get verified here – if you will not or can not follow those instructions exactly, then we will not further discuss this issue, and your ban will be permanent.

    2. hey please i am extremely sorry and check that jay and karanbhir also even they are giving badwords in hindi language
      i apologize please
      i beg you 🙂

          1. Sunny – either you were kicked out of that room for 24 hours… or you need to logout of the other room you are in, then attempt to go into that one. Some user permissions are set so that you can only enter one room at a time with the Erotic Asia Sexy Chat. I guess I will need to make a page over there for connection problems – it should soon be listed in the forums section of the erotic Asia sexy chat.

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