The Xirta Sex Chat System Version One Details

We’ve been kicking the tires. In some ways it’s better, in some ways it’s currently lacking some of our favorite features of the OC system.

First public access is on this page here for the Xirta chat system 2021 V1

Here we will pull together the “how to” info – and the comments section on this page will serve as a suggestion / how to as well.

The Xirta system may go down for a few hours during big code updates or other reasons – if so, people will likely migrate to the peeps text chat system here.

As of initial launch of the new Xirta system, messages do not disappear within minutes or hours or whatever – like when you, or someone else enters a room, they may be able to see all the messages that were posted before – like hours before, maybe days before. I am working on changing that,

But privacy in other ways too may be different as I don’t have all the info of all stuff that this system keeps track of and for how long. It is certainly logging much more than our old system did, including semi-identifiable info like ip addresses, and keeping it longer than our old system. I am working on changing that – but no ETA and no guarantee what I do to code that will work as expected.

There are many planned updates / addons for this system, Some I think people will love, like more custom emotes and ‘stickers’.. some people will likely complain about – like an “ad bot” – don’t worry though, as new things are added they will be tweaked after initial setup.

My plan for the ad bot will be that it can be user choices for some things including types of ads and frequency.

I’m also experimenting with voice chat and video chat options – we may have to charge extra for video chat though. We’ll see how it all comes together. Maybe we can get some kind of supporter level membership if people would kick in $2 per month and have access to uncensored video chat or something.

Any how, much of this is very fluid and likely to change. Currently working on the speed and testing, then it’s more of the glamorous things to roll out. Hold on tight – it’s looking like the next year and future will be bright!

Encryption keys / back / can’t read encrypted messages

Encryption info on this page click here.

upcoming sexy emoticons and stickers

Click here to read or comment about upcoming additions to with sexy emotes and stickers for our new chat system.

This page will be updated and change frequently most likely. Come back for more info as we add to it!


  1. not sure how easy this might be , or if its even possable . but could you add a whos online box , like the one on chatspace , to the peeps area? would be useful

  2. I’d love it if we could get a friend’s list in the chat room.

  3. i dont know if this is something going forward. what is the point of needing to register anyway ? i am currently on another site that uses something like OC but its called Codychat. it doesnt require any registeration and you can link rooms on your webpage. the software from my understanding does not use flash.

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      Admin Steven Nash

      Registering here gives some major perks… leave and come back and encrypted pms/dms can be continued, you can block/ignore people permanently, anyone who breaks the rules will have a much harder time coming back to bother everyone. All sorts of things actually.
      No more be impersonated or being fooled that someone is not who they say – lots of good things.
      There are some other bonuses to the registration that no one will understand quite yet also, we can have things like ‘karma points’ for example that allow access to upper floors… which will be a way to keep super trolls in the basement should they get in, and some other goodies.
      With all that being said, and several things not mentioned.. this system will allow for people to come in and use it with out registering – that is very high on my list of things to make easy. I think there is a way to do it now, but maybe it’s not fully visible, I will dig into this very soon.

      • keep it simple , keep it easy , it seems to be getting vastly over complicated for a chat site to talk smut to each other .

      • hi Nash

        i cant seem to sign in as i somehow forgot the password. unfortunately you have configured it to not allow password resets so is there anyway you can reset the password for me ?

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          Admin Steven Nash

          It’s going to take several days before I can get into the code chunks that deal with pass resets and emails and all that, sorry.
          Fastest option would be to create a new account.. but if you really need access to the one you already made, remind me in a couple days.
          When I get into that code chunk – I won’t be manually changing passwords – the only thing I will have it do is send an email to your already listed email addy.

          • I’m trying to remember which one I used and since the old OC chat is disabled , I’m trying to get used to it.

          • Hi Nash

            is it possible for you to email me the password reset for my username ramy ? i know you dont want to do it and especially you are trying to replicate the OC. i unfortunately did not add my email address since i wasnt sure how you will get us regular users used to it. although i admit the elemental software has the feel of like Discord

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    Admin Steven Nash

    from the chat comments – making notes here: sort name alphabetically of those that are on line and would be nice to see who is male, female other and also nice to get short bio added to profile name

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    Admin Steven Nash

    got a message from Tex saying several people have asked about getting our unique emotes from the old site over here..
    Definitely. On the agenda.
    I spent so much time making them dang things back in the day and getting them just a pixel or two off of alignment and everything – haha!
    I’ve been thinking bout putting up a poll kind of thing 0 fill in the blank or something – what would be some more good ideas for emotes and stickers?
    I’ve come up with a few ideas for sexy things that add to the conversations.. I’m sure everyone else can come up with some ideas too – might make a new post/page just for this emotes and stickers discussion.

    • a close clone of the old chat, cant go wrong with something that was so popular, good luck

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        Admin Steven Nash

        Yes indeed, it will be getting closer for sure. I started going through some of the art and graphics that I was working with back in the day to customize the old chat, and I found so many other great pieces that did not make it into the old chat because it had hard limits on how many emoji and other things it could take. This new system has much more room, so we are going to get some of the old art and bunch more soon!

      • will chatspace and peeps still be working ? , be a shame to lose everything

    • It really needs a link from both scsc and sexchatspace to the new site. Every time I go back in to OC I am asked HOW to link to the new one.
      The more that migrate, the easier it is to become accustomed to, we all had issues when we migrated from NC to OC, or vice versa, but, we managed.

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        Admin Steven Nash

        I have put links on a few pages on ‘scsc and sexchatspace’ – the ones with the actual oc chat room – and for sure more are to come!
        I appreciate the suggestions, and if there is a specific place / page that you think should get priority in getting a link notice please let me know!
        Doing the links on the pages on scsc are a bit more of a time suck, and the site as a whole is past do for an overall menus refresh and such, so it’s been hard to just update a few pages and not do a full on site revamp, which would take much longer. So, I’m trying to do both!

    • I loved the OC emoji’s , faves being the Geep, the grumpy face and the angelic face, on a wish list and knowing it’s impossible a Faye Reagan emoji.

    • Not sure there’s much to add to the gazillion emojis already there…but I did make one suggestion: a tongue…not a pffft tongue, a sexy one.

      I was wondering if it would be possible to put up a running number alongside the rooms telling you just how many people are currently in there?

  6. is there any timeline for the demise of OC, many regs still use it , several who dont like the “new chat” and dont plan on moveing across .

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      Admin Steven Nash

      Just posted into the old chat entry screen – demise will be Jan 12 2021.

      There are some things in the old chat that we do not have at this moment in the new chat – and that bothers me, but with adobe, microsoft and google truly killing flash now, we can wait no longer.

      More updates will be coming to the new chat to give it some of what we had in the old chat, including settings to remove messages from the rooms and such. If that is a sticking point for old regs, they can create a dm/pm or private room and enable encryption, which sort of does a similar thing right now.

      I am all ears for suggestions from folks on what is missing in the new chat compared to the old. Most things I will be trying to replicate or expand on, like the porn / sex type emojis and such, although I’, not sure many people use them.

      • main thing missing is the atmosphere , and that you cant replicate . personal opinion is that is a cheap site with sexchat glued on . wont be going there unless it changed big time .

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          Admin Steven Nash

          thanks for the feedback. I do think we can replicate the atmosphere, but certainly what we have right now is not even close. I have on my list to complete the rooms list more like before, along with naughtier emojis and a thing that some call ‘stickers’ – I’m working on several other things as well.
          I think there will be ‘big time changes’ pretty quickly, some things in days, some things in weeks.. but we’ll get there sooner than later I believe.

  7. Nash, have you considered updating the intro header at the old site and including the link to the Xirta chat? Maybe add another link to here if people have problems?

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      Admin Steven Nash

      this is a good idea. I have added a note about the new chatrooms on maybe 6 -8 pages.. sitewide notice is for sure overdo.

      • I meant the header when you log into the old chat, at the top of the text window, under the build info

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          Admin Steven Nash

          ah yes – thanks for getting specific – I was trying to do that about a week ago – got locked out because my ip changed – ugh – had to resort some security stuff – I should do this asap – think I got the new access setup just need to restart it and get over to my other place / where my desktop is – fingers crossed tomorrow night

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          Admin Steven Nash

          got this added into the OC – I have not looked at it / checked it to make sure the url is clickable / spelling is correct / it looks good and all that. Let me know if it’s fucked up in some way.

  8. hey Chatty, I had the same problem. Are you in incognito mode? That’s what hung me up. If you install it outside of incognito, you can then access the site in incognito mode. Mine loaded and installed in Chrome when I exited incognito mode.

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    Admin Steven Nash

    multiple things that affect size limits.. have you figured out about what gets blocked? 2MB? might be 1MB
    Also need to check if this is photo upload and if compression is a consideration before / after upload.

  10. Hi there Nash,
    when logging off is it better to log off from every single room and then from the main profile logging off side or just in one go?
    does it affect the rooms or chat if I don’t log off the chats when I leave?

  11. Hi Nash,
    Just looking at the Xirta link, it is mentioning a thing called ‘Element,’ I run with chrome and Firefox as a back up, and it is saying that I need to download bot as new browsers. Do you have a bit of a ‘layman’s guide’ as to the best way to gain access to the new site please?

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      Admin Steven Nash

      I’d love to get a screen shot of ” it is saying that I need to download bot as new browsers” – to try to figure where you are seeing that and where it’s coming from..
      you shouldn’t need to download a browser or anything – you can chat in page..
      Now there are some optional things that also work with our chat system.. but not going into all that at the moment.

      You seeing a page that says login / create account / explore rooms ?

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      Admin Steven Nash

      longbow mentioned in another comment that this could be an issue when first trying to sign up in “incognito mode” – I think he was saying that he was able to sign up / sign in via non-private browsing tab – then he could return in incognito after initial sign up / sign in maybe.

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    Admin Steven Nash

    comments open

    • why mods are soo fixated about screen names ? been kicked out by mikester several times by using word piss in my chatname , suggested i should move to separate room ???? it never been an issue with any other mod just him and im not new to this site , been around for last 5 or more yrs and never had any issues with other mods

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        Admin Steven Nash

        @Agatha – this is a good question.
        I can’t remember if we published anything specific about this, or if we should revisit it, or if there are other details surrounding that could be part of the issue.
        I cam see where some may find it taboo and it could fall under that part of our etiquette rules, I can also see how the world has shifted quite a bit in regards to golden squirt stuff.
        So I guess this will become a discussion for the week to see what people are thinking about it.

        • Agatha I am glad you have asked Nash, the point in this query is you have been asked 3 times to remove “piss” from your name from the ps room of OC, the rules do state That golden showers and the like should be in the watersports or an user created room, I have also noticed you did not mention the mod abused you pmed me with. Nash this should really be in the mod complains page

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            Admin Steven Nash

            yep it’s def more of s mod complaints page kind of thing ( )

            Perhaps having ‘OpentoWetPlay’ or something similar would be inviting enough for those who are interested without being as abrupt as ‘pissPlay’ in a name that is right there in front of everyone.. then if you go to a wet room, change display name there to be P whatever.. then change back to ‘wet’ when rejoining the lobby.

            This is something we will probably discuss more.

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