Let’s all chime in on what we want to see in the future of the sex chat community. This is not about the features or tech of the site – those thoughts should go on the sex chat site suggestions page, this post here and comments should be about how we want things handled, people to act or whatever.
Just wanted to give a kudos for the GFA rule. seems to be making the lobby a little more pleasant and drama free…..not completely but it’s an improvement. 🙂 thanks nash and all the mods for your efforts. hugs to all my friends reading
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now and what I have been seeing is the rise in non sexual chat to the points were its about 50-50 and I love it, I love to see the social aspect. In the future I honestly see sex chat being more geared towards the social aspect in the future just because of the current rate that it is shifting. So the question is will the site embrace that change? I hope so because I for one would love to see this site and its amazingly dedicated staff take a stab at just a normal chat and creating a community base that dosent havesex on the mind. Not saying get rid of it entirely but maybe create a portal into the chat which dosent have prn adds, and when it starts it starts in a social lobby rather then a main lobby with options to go to other rooms that are ste official but are not sex themed.
One could go even further and start to incorporate community involvement, have gaems and maybe even contests with rewards and such. I have read the documentation on the chatsoftware and its not incredibly flexable but you could do things like win this contest and for a few days you pic the color of the chat and such. But anyways that’s were I see it going, more about the user experience and maybe not so much about the user getting off.
One final thought, I know that you have said nash that you like the fact that you are seeing users connecting and becoming friends, lets not forget before tom Anderson created myspace he was making porn sites lol
I love that there are STILL people who come to this site for a social experience and not JUST a sexual one. When i first started coming here In may of 2010 that’s exactly what i found. Somehow that has shifted to the 50/50 ratio that Kim mentioned. It would be nice to have a community of friends who log on for intelligent conversation and a chance to hangout and have the occasional “naughty chat” without being bombarded by horny guys hitting on every feminine sounding name on the participants list. Not sure how we can do this. Just hope we figure it out soon. I really miss it. Just my thoughts as user who remembers better days. Hugs to all my friends and ty ty ty to Nash and all the Mods for keeping complete chaos at bay.
I come here to have a nice chat and at times a naughty chat. I mainly come here to chat with the people I know. But before I can even do that on a regular day, I have to start blocking about 75% of the room, because every guy is looking for a girl, or talking in hindi/indian or however that language is called (no disrepect intended).
I’d like to see that chatting in lobby should always be in English and people who don’t live up to that, be kicked out or to another room.
Also I think there the lobby should be split up. ONe lobby for just chat (naughty chat even, but clean stuff, for cyber go to your own room/pm) and a “lobby” for trying to pick up someone.
What do others think about it?
Interesting thoughts there Jee Wee – gonna have to think about this. Wonder if anyone else has any thoughts along this regard, and if there would be any unintended side effects that would be unwanted.
Oh, and the rules do say English only in the main lobby(s) – and people are now being kicked to the rules page if they do not follow this rule.
Hey Nash,
Thanks for the superfast reply. I do know the rules say English only in the main lobby. But more often then not people either don’t read tthe rules or chose not to follow them. And a moderator isn’s always available to act upon such “violations”. Maybe a simple solution by adding the text ENGLISH ONLY! to the channel description?
Been hearing some people requesting just a casual chat room just like some of the other rooms we have (besides the main lobbies), there has also been requests for a nudist room.